u/Haunting_Front6174

Player sad because of discrimination?!

Hey fellow dungeon masters.

UPDATE (SOLVED): First of all: Thank you all for contributing! This community id amazing for advice and additional insights in such situations! As some of you pointed out, the player might have been more upset about the fact, that he was singled out than being upset about discrimination, which, after talking to him this evening, came out to be true. So we talked the situation through and found, that there are ways and means to get around the townsfolk and their mostly superficial hatred towards dwarfs. We also agreed that in future I make it clearer that this could happen in specific places either through NPCs or through general narration.

In my last session my players had to escape a fortress formerly run by dwarves but the fortress was besieged and captured by an army of a wealthy (mostly) human family.

The players knew the story and successfully disguised themselves as soldiers of said army with the dwarf of their party miming their prisoner.

The townsfolk was not too happy to see a dwarf on the street and act accordingly (a couple kids threw a tomato, the bar keeper articulated their distrust)

I could see that the dwarf's player took it quite seriously so after a dinner break we had, I decided the barkeeper was secretly helping dwarves and other folks to flee from the town etc.

Still he called me after the session and asked if he could skip next session to "not be in the way" of the other party members who had gathered intel over another quest they wanted to pursue here.

The last thing I wanted was alienating a player and I explained that there are a lot of concepts in DnD to not be seen like disguise kits, not using the main road, travel by night etc.

He reluctantly said he would come to the next session. What could I have done better? What should I do next?

Thanks for any advice!

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u/Haunting_Front6174 — 8 days ago

Found my BBEG half through the campaign

Hello everyone,

tl;dr:

I made the experience that even if your players (and you as DM) thought you knew the BBEG already there could always be a "bigger fish" behind what you already thought making it more interesting and adding a new layer!

I just wanted to share an experience I had yesterday when thinking about my current campaign:

- Evolved from Storm wreck Isles

- Old gods try to come back

- a thieves guild supports the cults in finding hidden location for their rituals

- after a "short" intermezzo in the feywild the chars lost 10 years and all of the sword coast is at open war

First I had planned that they would get infos about the old gods and their cults and then slay champions or high priests or (depending on how late they deal with the problem in the campaign) even the materialised avatars of those gods.

All back stories neatly weave into the narrative:

- Paladin lost his family 35 years ago when mount Hotenow erupted

- Wizard and her brother found a relic in the feywild when they were young (was the relic of one of the fathomless)

- Cleric was healer in a band of mercenaries working for the thieves guild

- Rangers parents were killed by marauding giants under the influence of one of the cults

But now as they have slayn the first champion and had some dealings with the court of Neverwinter I found that seeking out the cult and killing high ranking members is quite repetitive (as there are 5 ancient beings trying to come back)

In Neverwinter they found a politician who knew the family of the Paladin and was planned as an NPC who helps the party to get into the higher circles of Neverwinter society. They never insight checked him.

But he has an interest in old relics, is one of the members of Dagult Neverembers court and was already an adult when the mount Hotenow happened. And then it came to me:

Why not make him a secret lich who just uses the cults (and the adventurers) to get the relics he needs from those ancients in order to conduct a ritual making him a god himself (Vecna Style)

It is so pleasing to have an actual BBEG and not just organisations as adversaries and the big plot twist is also there.

And nothing the adventurers have done so far is wrong. They just did not find evidence yet that behind the cults and the thieves guild there is another scheme.

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u/Haunting_Front6174 — 1 month ago

Familie, Job alles da aber ich muss raus

Hallo Zusammen,

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ich (m36) schildere kurz meine Situation:

- Frau (Lehrerin), 3 Kinder, Mietwohnung (gut aber nur nach kölner Verhältnissen bezahlbar

- freiberuflicher Unternehmensberater (ja ich weiß), der Rubel rollt

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Der Job ist eine reine Katastrophe, ständiger Stress, Arbeiten bis tief in die Nacht. 100% Home-Office

Ich muss raus aber unsere Lebensumstände sind ansonsten grandios.

Mein Traum war immer Lehrer zu werden aber in den Job bin ich nach der Ausbildung reingerutscht und jetzt habe ich das Gefühl nicht mehr raus zu kommen. Ich möchte noch einmal studieren gehen und Lehrer werden aber wie soll ich 7 Jahre (mindestens) lang meine Familie durchbringen.

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Miete: 1500 Euro

1x Kita unter ein Jahr

2x Schulpflicht

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Gehalt meiner Frau: ca. 40.000 netto

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Lebensstandard reduzieren etc. alles klar aber die Rechnung geht mit dem Gehalt meiner Frau + ggf. Nebenjob neben dem Studium trotzdem nicht so richtig auf... Oder bin ich einfach nur ein verwöhntes Beraterarschloch?

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u/Haunting_Front6174 — 4 months ago