u/Haunting_Lake_7811

I don't know what's wrong with me

I’m a woman who is almost 30, and I’ve never been married or even had a boyfriend. I’m a virgin. To be honest, I’ve always focused more on my own life, my studies, and the hobbies I enjoy, like gaming, rather than thinking about marriage.

If I’m being completely honest, I’ve never really had any desire at any point in my life to get married, be in a relationship, or have children. When I saw my friends and cousins constantly looking for a partner, talking about marriage, and checking out guys, I never really understood it or felt the same way. But deep down, I would sometimes ask myself, “Why don’t I have any interest or feelings toward these things? Is there something wrong with me?”

I should also mention that I’m not gay, and I don’t feel emotionally or sexually attracted to women. In fact, I’m not a particularly sexual person. That said, I don’t dislike the idea of having sex with a man. For example, if I watch porn, I can get turned on by seeing male private parts, but overall, I’m just not a very sexual or “horny” person.

Lately, I haven’t been feeling good about myself. I feel like I’ve fallen behind in life because of these aspects of my personality, and I’m scared about my future. Does something actually seem wrong with me because I feel like I’m more comfortable and happier without getting married or having a partner?

Sometimes I feel like I don’t belong in this world and that I have no purpose in life. Right now, I also feel like I’m getting old, and even if I wanted to get married and start a family, I feel like it’s already too late because men don’t like women over 30...

Overall, I feel like I’ve fallen so far behind in life because of my personality and the way I am, and now I honestly don’t even know what I want from life anymore...pleople say it's a red flag and if a woman us still single unmarried at 30, there's always something wrong with her...

I've never shifted but I want to do so. But ive been told by a TON of people it's not real and I must be crazy fir believing in it specially because I'm almost 30...

I've recently saw tons of people saying "Wow people actually believe this crap, that's crazy" , "it's just dreaming", and "Its not real, there's no proof". They also said the CIA files were fake and just a failed experiment. They say it's just escapism...

Is that true? does it really feel like real life when you shift, do you actually shift to a different reality?

Some claim, reality shift doesn't exist because by the rule of physics, your body as well as its electrochemical functions in the brain - aka. mind - is bound tight by space-time continuum. Secondly, you can kind of experience it only through a very vivid lucid dreaming but that's not another reality - its a coordinated play by your semantic memory.

Anyways my life is living hell and shifting is the only thing keeping me here. If it's not real I'd rather be told the truth than believing in false hope.

I’ve been hearing about reality shifting for the past 5 years, but I still have so many questions

I’ve been hearing about reality shifting for around five years now, but I’ve never really been able to find clear answers to some of my biggest questions.

First of all, how do you actually shift? What methods are there? Is there a specific website, YouTube channel, subreddit, or any other resource where someone can learn about shifting properly, step by step, from the very beginning?

And is it possible to shift permanently? If someone shifts and later regrets it or wants to come back to their CR, how would they do that?

Also, what exactly is a script? Do you actually have to write down your entire life in your DR beforehand, from beginning to end, or is it just a general outline of what you want your reality to be like?

Another thing I’m really confused about is whether shifting is actually real. Some people swear that it’s real and say they’ve experienced it themselves, while others say it’s completely made up or that people who think they’ve shifted are actually just dreaming or experiencing lucid dreams.

I’ve wondered about this myself too. If shifting is actually real, how do people supposedly shift to completely different worlds, including anime or cartoon universes? Are those experiences just dreams, or is there something more to it?

And honestly, there’s a specific reason I’m interested in shifting. I’d like to shift to a reality where I’m 15 years younger than I am now. Basically, I want to go back to my own past, but with a few small changes, so I could start over and do some things differently. So if O can do that, does it mean time travel is possible?

I know that probably sounds strange, but I’m genuinely curious and would really appreciate it if someone experienced could explain how shifting works, what’s actually known about it, and where I can learn about it properly.

If you’ve been shifting for a while, I’d really appreciate any advice, resources, or personal experiences you can share.

I’m an almost 30-year-old woman, and I really want to try shifting reality and go back to the past—maybe to when I was 16 or 17. The reason is that I really messed things up back then. It wasn’t entirely my fault, though; I was going through some pretty difficult circumstances and didn’t have a good life situation. Now I feel like I’ve reached a dead end. I honestly don’t even know whether something like this is actually possible.

I first heard about reality shifting about five years ago, but I didn’t take it very seriously at the time. Whenever I talked to people about it, they all told me it was just an internet hoax and wasn’t real, like so many other internet myths. Some people also said that reality shifting is basically just lucid dreaming and nothing more—that it’s simply a dream.

These days, more than ever, I feel like I really want to try shifting, but I have absolutely no idea where to start. Honestly, I don’t even understand how it’s supposed to work! I’ve heard terms like “safe word” and “permashift” and things like that, but I have no idea what they mean. I know basically nothing about shifting, which is why I’m here to ask you all for some guidance.

First of all, I want to know: Is it actually possible to go back to the past through reality shifting??? How would that even be possible??? If it were, wouldn’t everyone be doing it, since pretty much everyone would love the chance to go back and rebuild their life from scratch?

And if that’s the case, wouldn’t regret basically lose its meaning? If we could go back to our teenage years over and over again and start our lives over, then wouldn’t death and illness lose their meaning too? This is actually one of the things that makes me doubt whether shifting is real in the first place.

Second, when we shift, do we enter another body? What happens to the consciousness that was already in that body? Because that body already existed there and was presumably being controlled by another consciousness, just like our bodies are here. So what happens to our current body—the one we’re in right now? If we were to permanently shift to another reality, would we die in this reality?

And what about the passage of time? For example, let’s say I want to spend 10 years living in my DR. If I eventually come back to my CR, will 10 years have passed here as well? And if I permanently shift, what happens to my CR and my body here? Would other people notice that I’m no longer here?

I have so many questions in my head and I’m honestly completely confused.

I’d really appreciate it if someone could explain to me what I’m actually supposed to do and how to get started. If anyone genuinely wants to help, feel free to reply here or DM me. It might take me a little while to respond, but I’d really appreciate any help because I honestly have no idea what I’m doing.

I’m also still somewhat skeptical about whether reality shifting is actually real and whether it’s really different from lucid dreaming.

Thank you, everyone!