u/HazelBlessed29

How would you deal with people who like tell you they really like you (romantically or platonically) and say they want to be "close" with you? (idk if admirers is the right word lol)

Idk but for not auto people they tell me to take it just as a compliment, but I feel like it's probably less flattering for auto people because we already love and admire ourselves so much and we don't necessarily appreciate having that from other people (personally, I find it kinda an intrusion).

For me, it can make me kinda jealous... Do you have ways to reduce that? Or would you just try to distance yourself from them instead? I'd love some different perspectives/advice for that and for how I could communicate my disinterest politely but clearly and also feel less intruded upon in general when people act interested in me

Do you all have a preferred version autoromantic flag? I feel I've seen a lot around but we don't really have one "official" one. Not that we need one, but just curious (unless you like really hate the one that we have here and if so PLEASE TELL ME)

Usually I'll go to like the park or sometimes to a cafe that I like. It can be annoying though, because people sometimes think that if you look like you're alone, you want to talk to them... Like, can't you see I'm having a moment? So I often try to go to places with minimal people.

Do you have any Autoromantic or just even sort of Autoromantic-friendly song suggestions?? Literally all songs are kinda unrelatable to me tbh so let me know songs that you find more relatable!!!