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My FP hasn’t reached out in 5 days after a fight.

My FP and I got into a tiny fight about 5 days ago. I drink a lot and take my anger out on him. I kept making fights over little things for a lot of this relationship.

This is the first time he has not answered for longer than a day. The last thing he said was “leave me alone” after I asked if we were broken up. He never confirmed it and has not reached back out.

I have sent him a lot of messages apologizing. We share a house and he has not even answered about that stuff.

When upset in the past, he asks for space and often told me he needed a few days to regulate his emotions and to let me calm down. But it has never been nearly 5 days of no contact, but we have done like two weeks of space before where he would still contact me here and there.

Just wondering if anyone has gone through anything similar? Does this seem like a break up or space?

And any helpful advice to stop reaching out?

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u/Head-Clothes8969 — 4 days ago

Confused about where we stand (M26) and (F25)

My boyfriend (M26) and me (F25) got into a fight this weekend. We have been together for a year. I asked him if we were done and was just to “leave him alone” and that he doesn’t care what I do anymore. It has now been 3 days and he will

not answer any of my messages. I have repeatedly asked for answer about if this is space or a break up, and have received nothing in return. We live together and I have had to return back to my mom’s house, and he will not answer me about when I can get my stuff. Any advice or on what to do and if I should lose hope?

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u/Head-Clothes8969 — 6 days ago