I think my boyfriend may be DL?
I (23F) started dating my boyfriend (27M) about 8 months ago. From the very start i noticed that he's so different than all of my exes and men that i know. He has feminine mannerisms and uses lots of hand gestures while talking. He even said that he "doesn't really care about sex" when we first started dating which felt a bit off to me. He also talks in a feminine voice lots of times. Yesterday i caught him staring at a man in such a loving gaze while we were together which only made my suspicions go higher. There was this incident where i was cooking and he came to the kitchen and said "i'm gay" i said "what?" He then started laughing and said ooh i just wanted to get your attention. Is there any way i can know for sure what his orientation is because we're talking about getting married and having a future together, i really don't want to get shocked later because i care about him and want this relationship to work