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Hey guys so I’ll try not to make this too long. so essentially my friend told me that this guy that she’s friends with said to her that he wanted to cheat on his girlfriend with her and slagging her off all the time. then my friend told his girlfriend and when the girlfriend bought it up to him he twisted it saying my friend just wanted to break them up etc.

So some of my other friends who are friends with the girlfriend were talking about it and I told them what I knew, and that he broke up with her then used her insecurities to get back with her which is what I was told.

Skip to today where I am going to look at a uni and on the way there I get a message from the girlfriend asking why am I spreading fake shit about her and that I had no business being in. so ofc I did apologise and say sorry and that it i shouldnt of gotten involved but also that I didn’t make up shit and that I only said what I was told. But then she ask who told me and I didn’t want to throw my mate under the buss so I just said some year 13 who I didn’t really know because there leaving anyway and just gave a vague description of him.

I’m just worried less about the girlfriend cause I did apologise a lot saying I’m sorry and that it shouldnt of gotten involved and Thats all I can do really. but I am already a people pleaser and I hate when people are mad at me and upset to the point where I’m nearly sick with anxiety and can’t eat or drink. I just fear that after half term when I go back everyone of going to hate me cause I had something like that before happen to me for something that wasn’t even my fault, but story for another time.

I’m just worried that I’m going to be kicked out of the friends ive made and have to spend the next year and a bit alone do any advice would be helpful. (but please try to be respectfully I know I fucked up just some constructive criticism would be helpful as I know what redit is like thank you)

Edit: sorry about bad spelling and stuff writing this in a rush and I have dyslexia lol

Hey guys so I’ll try not to make this too long so essentially my friend told me that this guy that she’s friends with said to her that he wanted to cheat on his girlfriend with her and basically slagging her off all the time then my friend told his girlfriend and when the girlfriend bought it up to him he twisted it saying my friend just wanted to break them up etc

So some of my other friends who are friends with the girlfriend were talking about it and I told them what I knew and that he broke up with her then used her insecurities to get back with her which is what I was told

Skip to today where I am going to look at a uni and on the way there I get a message from the girlfriend saying why am I spreading fake shit about her and that I had no business being in so ofc I did apologise anf say sorry and that it wasn’t my fault but also that I didn’t make up shit and that is what I was told. But then she ask who told me and I didn’t want to throw my mate under the buss so I just said some year 13 who I didn’t really know because there leaving anyway and just gave a vague description

I’m just worried less about the girlfriend causr I did apologise a lot saying I’m sorry and that it wasn’t shouldnt of gor involved and Thats all I can do reqlly but I am already a people pleaser and I hate when people are mad at me and upset to the point where I’m nearly sick with anxiety and can’t eat or drink and I just fear that after half term when I go back everyone of going to hate me cause I had something like that before happen to me for something that wasn’t even my fault but story for another time

I’m just worried that I’m going to be kicked out of the friends ive made and have to spend the next year and a bit alone do any advice would be helpful (but please do it respectfully I know I fucked up just some constructive criticism would be nice thank you)