u/Healthy_Source_9752

As of 5:50 PM Central time! I got mine 💜

I 31F have a friend who is 33M that I have always been very fond of. Ive known him for about 10 years & I have always thought of him as a very nice, kind man. I recently went to a college graduation event & I ran into him there. Turns out he was at the graduation event to show support to one of his friends. Turns out the friend is a 19 year old girl. He took her an expensive gift and all. I now feel a little weird towards him. I understand its legal and all but 19 is surely way too young. I couldnt be friends with a 19/20 year old at this age. He also works as a high school teacher for special ed kids.. The kids he is around are around the same age as his 19 year old friend…Is this considered okay or is it a little odd/weird?

Edit: Theyre not related

I was being nosy & saw some social media posts were they have been going to bars/clubs together & even been taking trips out of town. I find men like this weird and gross but I wanted some input because never in a million years did I think he was like that.I thought he was one of those respectful, kind gentlemen.
:the expensive gift was a $150 perfume gift set.