u/Heavensrock

what the title says. we got into an argument and she thought it was fitting to call me the N-word (im black) it’s been days and I’m still upset about it, I can’t believe she stooped so low. I know it’s a part of her disorder but it still shook me up pretty bad. Does anyone know how to cope with this? thank you

edit: hello everyone, thank you for the supportive and kind comments, since most people in my life dont know about bpd, i didnt know who to share it with. im happy to have found this community:)
i am no longer friends with her and i cut contact, the argument was started because i no longer wanted to be friends. thats literally it.