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my boyfriend used to have anger issues when we first started dating, he played alot of videogames and we were younger so it was hard for him to control his emotions. they went away as we have been dating for almost 4 years now. However,recently he started playing Valorant again two weeks ago, and he gets mad almost every game when he plays,but doesnt take it out on me directly.

I did notice that he is getting angry alot easier with me now to the point where he yells at me and leaves the room (we live together) which is something that used to never happen. i have not been treating him any different: i make the same jokes and say the same things but now he gets offended and gets very mad. i tried being even nicer towards since this has happened but he just keeps getting angrier.

it also feels like he doesnt care as much as he used to. for example when it comes to things that i dont like. he will tease me or do something to me that he knows i dont like and when i used to ask him to stop he would, but now he doesnt listen he just calls me sensitive. i dont konw what to do anymore it feels like ive lost him and i know that if i bring it up he will just get mad at me again. i feel so trapped and honestly scared sometimes to be around him.

i miss when we never fought and i could be honest with him. like i called him annoying today because he said "are you fucking stupid" and then didnt apologize when it hurt my feelings, instead he started tickling me and then trying to annoy me. i had asked him to stop repeatedly and then he got mad at me at told me to apologize.

writing this out, it feels like i dont even recognize him anymore. just a couple weeks ago and for the last 2 years he has treated me so well. he has always been so patient and kind with me and now i dont even know what to do anymore.

my boyfriend used to have anger issues when we first started dating, he played alot of videogames and we were younger so it was hard for him to control his emotions. they went away as we have been dating for almost 4 years now. However,recently he started playing Valorant again two weeks ago, and he gets mad almost every game when he plays,but doesnt take it out on me directly.

I did notice that he is getting angry alot easier with me now to the point where he yells at me and leaves the room (we live together) which is something that used to never happen. i have not been treating him any different: i make the same jokes and say the same things but now he gets offended and gets very mad. i tried being even nicer towards since this has happened but he just keeps getting angrier.

it also feels like he doesnt care as much as he used to. for example when it comes to things that i dont like. he will tease me or do something to me that he knows i dont like and when i used to ask him to stop he would, but now he doesnt listen he just calls me sensitive. i dont konw what to do anymore it feels like ive lost him and i know that if i bring it up he will just get mad at me again. i feel so trapped and honestly scared sometimes to be around him.

i miss when we never fought and i could be honest with him. like i called him annoying today because he said "are you fucking stupid" and then didnt apologize when it hurt my feelings, instead he started tickling me and then trying to annoy me. i had asked him to stop repeatedly and then he got mad at me at told me to apologize.

writing this out, it feels like i dont even recognize him anymore. just a couple weeks ago and for the last 2 years he has treated me so well. he has always been so patient and kind with me and now i dont even know what to do anymore.