u/Helpful-Coffee-1094

Olá, sou bem nova nesse universo (não como pessoa rs) e já vi muitos Charges preconceituosas​ contra pessoas trans, em especial focando na Erica Hilton, onde percebi uma tendência em colocar o órgão dela "vazando", existe algum motivo para isso?

É óbvio que sei que os conservadores têm um tendência incrível de ser preocupar com o que os outros têm dentro da calcinha, mas de fato fiquei na dúvida.

Como estou me descobrindo ainda e tenho euforia o tempo todo, as vezes acontece deu ficar "molhada" me pergunto se é dai que vêm isso e se usam isso pra nós atacar...

I’m 32 years old. I started wearing women's clothes in secret during childhood; it aroused me and always led to masturbation. Afterward, I’d put it all out of my mind for days, weeks, or even months, thinking it was just a fetish.

Recently, the thought keeps resurfacing that maybe there was more to it than that. I never minded being referred to as "he" and all the rest, but I realize now that, throughout my life, I haven't really cared about much of anything. I like gaming, women, and RPGs, but I never worried about truly important things like my health, appearance, or career future—I was sort of living on autopilot.

I’m married now and have a daughter, and although my wife is a wonderful person, she isn't into women, so any decision I make is going to drastically change my life.

I guess my biggest questions are whether there are others who started out like me and discovered they were trans. I’m afraid that this "fetish" and the apparent dysphoria might be signs I’m misinterpreting, but at the same time, I don't think a "man" would spend hours thinking and researching this, or testing out photo filters—you know?

I’m not looking for a diagnosis; I just want to know if this is not all in my head—hypochondria, or something like that...

Thanks.

Edit: I forgot to mention that when I think about the possibility of being trans, I become concerned with my appearance—I think about taking care of how I look and my health. That’s the sense in which I feel there’s something quite different about me.

Antes de vocês chegarem a ser quem vocês realmente são, vocês se sentiam assim o tempo todo ou alternavam? Tipo, a sensação de ser uma mulher ia e vinham durante horas/dias ou sempre esteve bem presente?

Se alguém tiver com dúvidas sobre seu gênero ir pra um psicólogo é sempre o melhor primeiro passo?