u/Helpful-Pear-1589

M27 , fairly new to Shaadi.com Jeevan sathi and I’ve noticed a few girls have been viewing my profile repeatedly but haven’t reached out. I want to message them first but I’m genuinely unsure about the best way to do it. A few things I’m confused about Can I directly message someone who viewed me, or do I need to send an “Interest” first? What kind of opening message actually gets a response like do girls prefer something personal or a simple intro there. what worked for you? Any tips on breaking the ice without coming across as too forward or too generic?
Thanks in advance!

M/28 height 5,11 height living in a tier-3 city earning 50k monthly in a FMCG, I am trying to communicate on wedding platforms, sending request from these platforms and it’s been 3 months, please no where I got much chances or any direct approach. Later on, when I speak directly from my end. Things just gets stop at “kundli nahi nahi mil rahi hamari beti ki or aapki”.
Where i am lacking behind.

Did any one of the men received any direct message from the female on shadi.com or on Bharat matrimony ,where I am lacking behind?