u/Helpful-Sense4231

So we are in realtionship since 6 years now we started dated in college 1 st yr like first 3 years were fairy tale kinda he loved me so much but after that it’s normal somedays high someday low but I am okay we were okay in love let me tell u whenever he comes to meet me it’s a record for 5 years least he never comes empty handed even though it’s small things he never shows empty handed like wise on other things he expresses his love to me but what’s Bothering me now we have long distance now he lives in other city for work and I am preparing for competitive exam form my hometown only so nowadays he comes to meet me he just comes like doing favour to me to meet me he doesn’t even give chocolates man anyways i can digest that also but nowadays he don’t even call regularly I don’t know what’s happening i trust him i know one thing he is not cheating me because my instinct is strong but I am feeling unloved he doesn’t care anymore like he used to do .. he is saving for our marriage we are planning to get marry next year he is saving for Bali and Andaman trip but what the hell I am Goona do if he is not treating me good…

Biggest problem is if I complain to him he doesn’t listen he just say u are overthinking focus on ur exam study like dude how can i study i am not feeling okay .

Please u guys give me suggestions ??

how to make him understand in one go because I can’t deal with this every other day and Also I don’t want to leave him he is first love of my life and I want it to be forever because deep down I know he loves me a lot .

P.s my bf no more care for me he used to do no regular calls no efforts dry texts i feel I am no more in realtionship I feel taken for granted ..

So, we have been in a relationship for 6 years now. We started dating in college, in 1st year. The first 3 years were like a fairy tale, he loved me so much. After that, it became normal; some days were high, some days low, but I was okay. We were okay in love.

Let me tell you, whenever he comes to meet me, it’s been a record for 5 years, he never comes empty-handed. Even if it’s something small, he never shows up empty-handed. Likewise, in other things, he expresses his love to me.

But what’s bothering me now is that we are in a long-distance relationship. He lives in another city for work, and I am preparing for competitive exams from my hometown. So nowadays, when he comes to meet me, it feels like he’s doing me a favour. He doesn’t even bring chocolates anymore. Anyway, I can digest that also, but now he doesn’t even call regularly.

I don’t know what’s happening. I trust him, I know one thing, he is not cheating on me because my instinct is strong. But I am feeling unloved. He doesn’t care anymore like he used to.

He is saving for our marriage, we are planning to get married next year. He is planning for a Bali and Andaman trip. But what am I going to do if he is not treating me well.

The biggest problem is that if I complain to him, he doesn’t listen. He just says, “You are overthinking. Focus on your exam. Study, study.” But how can I study if I am not feeling okay.

Please give me suggestions on how to make him understand in one go, because I can’t deal with this every other day. Also, I don’t want to leave him, he is my first love, and I want it to be forever. Deep down, I know he loves me a lot.