u/HermitHowler

Me (49F) and my friend, Sarah (49f) have been friends since high school. Sarah asked me to go to MT with her on a vacation. I knew she wanted to see a “friend” (shes married) but he backed out. But we decided to go anyway. She booked air B&B and flights. I promptly paid my half when she told me the total. We get to MT. I guess she put the rental under my name and I paid $500 for the vehicle. She said nothing bout paying me back or anything. So I had her drive and pay for gas 🤷🏻‍♀️ We go to dispensary cuz it’s legal there and I enjoy to partake. Get to our room, walk around town to find a place for supper. We eat , I paud for supper cuz I was excited, and get back to our room. I break out my goods and sit outside to enjoy the weather and sunset. The next day we went to see old faithful. I’ve always wanted to see it. But it was rushed she rushed through everything. I like to go with the flow. I was annoyed but went along. She asked what I wanted to get for supper and I said there’s a cute lil place on the corner we walked by. She just disregarded anything I said and just decided where to go. All week it was her dictating what we were doing. When we got back from our “outings” I’d sit outside and relax watching the clouds. The mountains are beautiful. I FaceTimed every night with my son and a cpl other friends. Her family never called her once. She FaceTimed with (what I thought) was a mutual friend. She was obsessed with posting on social media so this “friend” could see we were in MT anyway. (Who cares?) she had to go everywhere her boss wanted her to go and take pics to send to her. Huh? Fast forward to present. Word got back to me that she’s been telling ppl that she pretty much paid for everything and I just sat outside and got “weeded up”. Every evening she wanted to just walk around town to see if she can get cat called like 15yr olds. She made a big deal that I wouldn’t walk across the street to the gas station. Says I put her in danger. Seriously grow up. It was a very quaint town. Not even traffic after 10pm. It was fine. We’re grown ass women. I’m just annoyed and haven’t talked to her since. So am I the asshole for wanting to relax and smoke in the evening on my vacation?