I’m in a crappy situation where a friend bailed on me to a show next weekend. I put the tickets on resale on stubhub but no one has bought them yet😭 am i seriously going to be out like $350?! Is there anything i can do to get a refund or is re-selling the only option? I’ve never even bought concert tickets before this, im so mad.
I don’t even know how to go through the transfer process if they do sell
Me and my boyfriend were together for 2 years. We live about 3 hours from each other in different states. He said before he’s open to relocating to my city, but he told me today he doesn’t want to live here because it’s so expensive (nyc). I can’t leave because I’m really close with my family, my dad is sick and I’d die of guilt if i ever left.
We ended it today because if there’s no future where we’ll actually live together than what are we doing? He has nothing keeping him where he is, he plans to have a career change soon and he’s uncertain where that may put him, but he’s not even willing to try moving here down the line. There’s no timeline, even if it took 5 years for him to get settled in his new career id support him, but if there’s no hope for him coming here than where do we go from here.
Am i making the wrong choice staying with my family? It really is expensive here and i can’t blame him for that, but i kept saying life is going to be difficult wherever you are in the world, why wouldn’t you do it with someone that loves you more than anything. I’d do anything for him, but living here is my one non-negotiable and I am feeling so lost. I feel trapped between two worlds. If i stay here with my family, one day i wont have them anymore and I’ll be alone. Is it worth giving up on this amazing love i have? I have a secure job and down the line I planned to try and get 2-family home so i can still be around to help my parents while still having my own space. His family dynamic is very different from mine so I understand why he may not want to be so close to mine, but I thought our love was more important. Now we’re both alone, both don’t really have friends, just work. What kind of life is that? He is my everything and I’ve been sick today thinking about never seeing him again.
Am i making a mistake? I just wish he would fight for us, but he won’t. He is the best man I’ve ever known and has made me feel so truly loved and secure in our relationship for 2 years. I thought we’d be together forever. I’m at such a loss, this is so hard.