u/HistoricalCar1900

I have had a 1a and my sister had melanoma....so I have a lovely neighbor mid30's, married with two boys. I am a very observant person and she had a visible mole on her clavicle...but it looked

like it was growing a wing on either side. I asked if she got checked out and she said yes and in fact, she got an appt with somebody and they said all is fine. Ok, i have never seen a round brown mole with wings. Not sure if she has a derm or a PCP...not sure what to do.

I wanted to let everyone know about an excellent resource....WomensLaw.org..despite the name,it is useful for anyone being abused. It clearly explains how to check the laws in your state to help figure out whether the abuse you are experiencing is against the law....and many are punishable. It has a section on DV in the military, and goes to to explain how it is handled in the military. A drop down menu allows you to go to your state to check out the specifics of your situation. Stay safe.