u/Holiday-Character-64

I am desperately in need of advice as an accounting major and I dance, act, and sew as hobbies. I need to make a decision by this week because classes start very soon and I am having such a hard time. I am deciding between Roosevelt University downtown Chicago or Mizzou in Columbia Missouri (2 hours from my hometown).

I received a 43k scholarship across all years (Missouri schools only) which covers all expenses at Mizzou.

I will work and pay out of pocket at Roosevelt and my cost is 7,662/year which is not that expensive. I can also take out $3500 worth of loans.

I am so conflicted because Chicago has so many opportunities for internships, dancing, fashion, and acting, but I’d be giving up my 43k scholarship since it is not in Missouri. It doesn’t seem like many internship opportunities from Mizzou.

Also I already committed to the track team and the coach posted me🫩

I am desperately in need of advice as an accounting major and I dance, act, and sew as hobbies. I need to make a decision by this week because classes start very soon and I am having such a hard time. I am deciding between Roosevelt University downtown Chicago or Mizzou in Columbia Missouri (2 hours from my hometown).

I received a 43k scholarship across all years (Missouri schools only) which covers all expenses at Mizzou.

I will work and pay out of pocket at Roosevelt and my cost is 7,662/year which is not that expensive. I can also take out $3500 worth of loans.

I am so conflicted because Chicago has so many opportunities for internships, dancing, fashion, and acting, but I’d be giving up my 43k scholarship since it is not in Missouri.

I F(19) broke up with a guy early June that I’d been with for a year after finding out he cheated on me with multiple women. I had already been feeling unappreciated for so many reasons, we became long distance after leaving for college, but we spoke everyday and went on trips.

Let’s just say he did me absolutely terrible (talked trash about me to his group chat too). I would have been a fool to stay. Immediately after me finding out, he confessed everything and told me how much I don’t deserve him, how good of a person I was, and how he’ll forever regret taking me for granted. He sent loadssss of paragraphs about his guilt. Honestly, I was so hurt and that I went quiet for 2 days to process everything before officially telling him how hurt I was and saddened. Threw a few jabs too because I knew I’d never ever speak to him again. He begged to talk on the phone and I just couldn’t because I saw all the proof and didn’t really need anything else and I blocked him on literally everything. He even asked to drive 9 hours to talk. I was disgusted and ashamed more than anything because he painted himself to be a saint when he was doing me dirty behind the scenes.

Fortunately, I don’t miss him at all. I’m more so angry that it happened. But it’s way easier now. This makes moving on wayyy easier. However, when it first happened, I literally felt like I was the one that got broken up with. How? Because he cheated and I ended it. But the hurt I felt was the hurt of a dumpee.

TLDR: He cheated on me and did me terribly, I ended it after finding out, but for some reason I feel like the dumpee.

I was denied and was wondering if I could join the waitlist.