Hi everyone, I’m hoping to get some advice or hear from anyone who has experienced something similar.
My undiagnosed* daughter is 10½, and I’ve noticed she seems younger than other girls her age in terms of maturity. She naturally spends a lot of time with younger girls since our close family friends have younger kids, so that’s just kind of how things have developed.
She’s had a harder time making friends her own age. When she does connect with someone, she tends to want that friendship to be very exclusive. If that friend starts forming other friendships, my daughter will often pull away completely.
I also notice that around girls her age, she seems to feel uncomfortable or unsure of herself. She gets quiet, anxious, and doesn’t engage much. At times she can come across as clingy or even a bit babyish in those situations.
When I interact with other 10-year-old girls, I’m honestly surprised by how mature they seem, which makes the difference feel even more noticeable.
Has anyone else gone through something like this with their child? Is this something kids grow out of, or are there ways I can better support her socially and emotionally?
I’d really appreciate any insight or advice. Thank you 💛
*we’re on a very long waiting list at a specific clinic in our area that’s supposed to do wonders. Her pediatrician didn’t officially diagnose her but referred us to this clinic.