u/Honest_Maybe_8858

I was wondering if anyone has any input into difference for a baby in day care vs being cared for by family.

I am in the very fortunate position that when I return to work following maternity (my daughter will be just over 12 months at the time) my parents in law and my mum are gonna support with childcare meaning my daughter will be with them for 3 days, me 1 day and my husband 1 day.

So far they have all been very respectful of our parenting decisions I.e. no screen time and food and nutrition.

My question is - is she missing out on anything by not being around other babies and children?

Ideally I want to keep the family care until school around 4 years old.

Thanks in advance!

We have a 9 month old boy. He is just the best baby - only cries if he's over tired or hungry. Genuinely just a pleasure to be around.

We think we want a sibling and due to health issues have been told not to wait.

I'm worried that I will take away from my son as I wont have the same time to give to him. Im worried we wont get lucky a second time in terms of temperament. Im worried the age gap is too close and it will be very hard to manage. Im worried that I would regret not experiencing siblings and allowing him to have a sibling.

So my question is - what are your experiences in terms of age gaps? Any advice/opinions?