From: Cielito
Ingredients: Beef Birria, mozzarella, cilantro, onion, red onion, and consommé.
Note: the menu said Mariana however honestly I didn’t taste that a bit or see any red so estimated with and without would be very helpful.
I’m trying to figure out how many calories in a slice.
Apologizing ahead of time for the length, but for the love of God bear with me!!!!!!
I am (23f) and my boyfriend (24m) can not dress and I feel like it’s beginning to affect my attraction towards him.
He has all of the inner qualities a girl could want but I’m really starting to struggle with the physical/attraction side.
Mostly because of his choice of attire, however there are a few other things that I think feed into the problem.
The first problem is that the attire he wears for one occasion he wears for all occasions! His regular “everyday” clothes are his gym clothes are his night clothes are his vacation clothes. He dresses in basketball shorts and random what I would refer to as “sleeping-in” t-shirts for every occasion….unless otherwise stated. He really only wears other clothes if he’s going to work or an event where it’s stated to dress formal. Even then though it’s a pair of slacks and the same collard shirt in a few different colors.
He’s open to buying new clothes but only at my direction: Since college I’ve been able to get him to buy two pairs of jeans (he did not own any prior) which he wears occasionally and two graphic tees. He does not have any interest in dressing himself or buying new clothes.
It almost gives an Adam Sandler vibe: My boyfriend is white….but I truly don’t thinks it’s a race thing. I went to a PWI and I’ve seen plenty well dressed white men in public and on tik tok.
I’m not being a materialist: God knows I’m not asking him to wear designer labels or high priced items….I just want to feel like he genuinely cares about his appearance and how he shows up.
The other weekend we were going to my mom’s house and I asked him to change 😬. I often have this feeling of just wanting him to leave the basketball shorts to the gym and wearing “real clothes” when we go out.
I bought him his first bottle of cologne hoping to just elevate his overall attractiveness. It worked initially, it gave the vibe he was maturing and having that manly edge to him, I like.
I’ve suggested a few different haircuts to kind of give him a more sculpted and adulter look. It was okay…..I guess?
I really wanted him to grow out his facial hair because I felt like it would help, but he said it wasn’t professional. Now with the job he’s about to go into he can’t have facial hair at all. There’s nothing wrong with clean shaven but honestly I was hoping it would offset some of my other concerns? 😭
Other than that just small stuff like clipping nose hairs…ear hairs….like I just want to feel like he cares about his appearance and looking attractive to me.
Major Problem‼️: Sometimes I feel like it’s not a big deal but other times it really starts to get under my skin and bug me. I feel like if it continues this way my attraction may wane…especially if I get around other men that I do find attractive and began to compare them.
Any and all advice accepted!!!