u/HorrorDirect

To need advice on meeting older men through online apps. Sad to say this, but I’m 27, and never been on a date. I have a fat crush on a 47 year old man at my job, but can’t pursue it. I’m thinking of finding an older man online.

In the past, I’ve had no luck with matches. I think it’s because I’m a liberal atheist in the Deep South. This time around, I won’t post my beliefs. I just need advice on how to spot red flags before dating and how to be safe when online dating.

Are many older men on the apps?

I’m currently in college and work FT as a grs. I am sick of being used and being so drained from this job! I took a vacation last week and it really put things in perspective. I realize that this isn’t my entire life and I’m not trapped here. I’ll be done with college next year, but I can’t hold on with this company any longer.

My plan is to find another full-time job or maybe another part-time job and just step down at Publix. I am sick of covering people’s jobs for them. Meanwhile, no one can cover my job. I hate doing a bunch of things. It’s like they act like I’m a team leader. They give me so much work, but they have no interest in promoting me and no they do not know I’m in college. Plus my manager hates me.

What’s it like stepping down to part-time? I know they’re gonna give me like no hours. Are they gonna wanna talk to me about it? I probably won’t be honest.