u/Hot-Calligrapher2247

so my parents have been married for maybe 14 years, and as a 13m year old and them both being somewhat heavy Christians make this hell, like 5 times a week they always make living here kinda shitty,. my dad either cheated or disrespected my ma,(which I strongly hold malice to him for) arguing downstairs at least 5 days out of the week, and if not it’s because guests are over or they have this weird little fake peace. and the main reason it bothers me is because my 4 year old sister is always in the background and I don’t want her to grow up in this pseudo peace my parents have, so how do I ask without either getting kicked out, or ignored and yelled at/ pitied?