u/Hot-Independent1081

ENFJ I met at work. Small office so we see each other often. She was very flirty and upfront at first. Started to like her a lot more recently and I am pretty much all in. Thought I would shoot my shot and she gave me her usual warm smile (my god), conversations have gotten a little stale and I get too nervous so may not be coming off as very confident.

Got up the courage to ask her out, I asked what were her plans for the weekend and where she lived at and she became kind of short/curt so I didn't go through with it and felt weird and kind of left the office without letting her know. She is very affectionate with everyone, but her being short/curt is the first time I have seen this side of her so I am guessing I made her uncomfortable and maybe she isn't interested.

I always liked the slightly brighter sound of the Yamaha. I feel like it is what a piano "should" sound like. It makes the lower tones sound more clear. My friend swears by Kawai however. I know it is down to preference but I want to know for those who prefer Kawai to explain what tone and sound do you like from it.

I'd like to think I am not a misogynist. I genuinely get value in trying to understand women on whatever level I can. There are so many desperate post of men who for whatever reason are not having much success with women. They seek advice online and people get really angry and just say they are an incel or misogynistic and that is the reason they are not having success with women and it is genuinely kind of radicalizing me. Some of the men I know who have a lot of success with women are misogynistic, sort of mean, selfish, assholes, and I know a lot of good, hardworking men who have almost no dating life to speak of. It happens all the time and I am sure some people here can relate.

I don't understand immediately jumping to attitude and values when a lot of the time it's just cause they aren't attractive to women. Not having success in dating doesn't make you a bad guy and just because a woman thought you were cute also doesn't say anything about your character either.

Coming here for a more neutral response because a lot of you guys have your head on straight. Can't really go to r/askmen either because I would probably just get attacked.