How to handle hypocrisy in online female spaces
I'd like to think I am not a misogynist. I genuinely get value in trying to understand women on whatever level I can. There are so many desperate post of men who for whatever reason are not having much success with women. They seek advice online and people get really angry and just say they are an incel or misogynistic and that is the reason they are not having success with women and it is genuinely kind of radicalizing me. Some of the men I know who have a lot of success with women are misogynistic, sort of mean, selfish, assholes, and I know a lot of good, hardworking men who have almost no dating life to speak of. It happens all the time and I am sure some people here can relate.
I don't understand immediately jumping to attitude and values when a lot of the time it's just cause they aren't attractive to women. Not having success in dating doesn't make you a bad guy and just because a woman thought you were cute also doesn't say anything about your character either.
Coming here for a more neutral response because a lot of you guys have your head on straight. Can't really go to r/askmen either because I would probably just get attacked.