My Ex is my neighbor & moved his ex girlfriend in a few weeks after or breakup. We are in No contact. Anyone been thur this or have any recommendations on how to cope?
My Ex is my neighbor & moved his ex girlfriend in a few weeks after or breakup. We are in No contact. Anyone been thur this or have any recommendations?? The thing is he introduced me to his kids, friends & whole family. Spent the holidays together & actually both said we loved each other. We were together almost everyday. He said the reason he moved next door to me was because he did not want to be with or live with his ex anymore because there was no safety, peace or respect from her or her kids. She didn’t show up for him for birthdays, when he was sick & not talk to his daughters. Also her kids were disrespectful to him & there home bringing people into there home to have sex & police coming because her son having drama. So he moved next door to me so he could have a better environment for his self & his kids. I know this is all true because once she found out about me she had her kids call apologize to him for disrespecting him & say they wouldn’t if he come home to there mom. Because she literally said she could not live without him. She even put her son out. Once he told her we were in a relationship. Then she started calling him all the time, begging him to come back & popping up at his house while we were home. When she would come & I’m there he would tell her to leave & also told her that he was with me because I am what he always wanted her to do or be. He would let me know what was going on or even answer when she call & im there. But eventually it was stressing all us out especially him because he said he didn’t want to hurt either one of us but they had 4 years of history together & history. Where as we only been together a year. Before he even officially broke things off with me he chose her because days after our conversations on this she was coming over & I was literally treated as the ghost next door & so I had to chose me. I literally ask her when she popped up the last time what he was telling her & she said exactly what he told me except she didn’t know I lived next door. So that day we all had a conversation & I walked away & went no contact next day she was back. Next he moved her in weeks later. The whole time we were together in the beginning seemed like she was not a factor never there at his house because we were friendly neighbors first & they had been broke up or so he said. But the problem now is I have to see them or there cars everyday they are literally next door & it bothers me. We are in No contact now. Any advice on how to deal with this situation??