Text breakup with no clarification after 9 weeks and Physical intimacy
Hi there, first time posting in this thread, but I got a discard text yesterday all of a sudden after some distance for a couple weeks. The last time I saw her in person.
she came over the day after my dog passed away and so I was grieving. By her showing up it meant she cared for me at least that’s what I interpreted.It was our first real test for intimacy I would say and she was really kind, we watched a movie and slept with each other, although I wasn’t really in the aroused state to perform like I typically do.
after that two weeks go by and she was avoiding making plans with meand I got the text yesterday with no clarification or reason, just that she don’t feel strongly to continue and I deserve someone that does. and it feels very abrupt and shattering in a way because there’s so many qualities in her that I really valued, and I was really attracted to her. I feel so confused and hurt like I did something wrong😢
The last thing I said was OK I understand. I would’ve liked to have the opportunity to share something with you in a conversation, but I get it. Wish you the best. Then I got crickets…
The worst part… I told her my ex crushed me when she dumped me over a text and she even was shocked to hear it…. Then she did the same thing.
How would that message I sent land for an avoidant?