u/HotAppeal9046

Problem/goal: hindi nag uupdate sakin bf ko, should i still stay or let go already.

Context: nasa outing yung bf ko ngayon with his coworkers, and idk simula umalis sya hindi na sya nag uupdate or message masyado sakin. yesterday he left at around 6 in the morning, recently puro away kaming dalawa, puro stress so i think this was a good thing na rin para makapag relax muna sya and makapag isip ganun din ako. hanggang sa yesterday hapon na pero wala pa syang niisang message ever since umalis sya, nag message sya sakin mga around 4 na ng hapon he said “ nag pa games” pa daw kasi kaya sya natagalan pero imagine ganun katagal? hindi na ko nag react and hinayaan ko nalang. until nag gabi na hindi talaga sya nag memessage sakin masyado halos wala. kung di ko sya imemessage he wont message din, the last na nag respond sya sakin kagabi is around 8 after that wala na syang updates or chats kahit na i told him na iupdate nya ko para alam ko kung ano ginagawa nya. nakakasama lang ng loob. pag magkasama kami halos di nya mabitawan phone nya puro lang sya games, pag nag de date naman kami sa labas para syang lantang gulay na halos walang energy, deserve ko pa ba ng ganito? andami ng issues looks like hindi na nya ko mahal he just dont know kung pano sasabihin. pls give me an advice:)

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u/HotAppeal9046 — 17 days ago

My boyfriend is in a team building right now, halos walang updates hindi nag memessage sakin. although pag minimessage ko nagrereply naman pero matagal. gets naman baka ineenjoy nya lang yung moment dun since uuwi narin sya bukas, and ngayon nakakaramdam ako ng kaba ano kaya meaning nito huhu hindi rin ako makatulog, may ka same experience ba ko here? share ur thoughts

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u/HotAppeal9046 — 17 days ago