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im a nonbinary/transmasc lesbian in my mid 20s that recently started low dose t and ive gotten to the point where my voice is getting lower, however i dont want it to go too deep because i dislike getting mistaken for a man. t has also ruined my singing voice, i cant carry a note, my voice cracks all the time, etc. ive been waffling a lot over whether i should stop t altogether because of this but it just gives me too many positive affects and helps with some disabilities i have so i rly don think i can stop. so can voice training be used to achieve a neutral/androgynous voice for someone who started t after my vocal chords finished developing? can voice training help fix the voice cracks and damage from t? and what are the options for vocal chord surgery? i'd appreciate any help or advice.

i was wondering about what options there are to repair voice deepening from t? does vocal surgery work? what about voice training? i'd appreciate any advice ty <3

i keep getting comments about my age from people who think i'm way younger than i actually am (i'm 26). things like saying i look too young to work at my job and having my ID triple checked when i buy beer. it drives me up the wall. i hate being perceived as a little boy so much. does anyone have advice for fixing this? i just wanna look like a hot butch lesbian.