u/Hot_Head7048

I have cried at least 3 times today. I’m so frustrated with myself and I’m TIRED. Mentally and physically.

Do I enjoy your company? Am I just desperate for attention? I don’t know anymore.

You made yourself very clear today and I appreciate that. I don’t know if it’s the phase of life I’m in and any pathetic scrap of attention towards me from someone felt good or if I do have some sort of feelings towards you. Most likely the prior.

I don’t really think it’s healthy for us to be friends anymore. That’s on me though. I clearly have some self reflecting to do and what my expectations are from friends and my own relationship. Sorry for making things weird and being too emotional.

We can’t be friends. I don’t think boundaries exist for you. I so enjoy talking to you but I also think I enjoy it too much. I would be upset if my partner was talking like this with another woman. So it’s time to let go. Maybe in another life we got together, but not this one. It sucks.

Is it just me or are all INFJs just inherently unhappy with their lives? Like moments of happiness, but always still unsatisfied overall.

I often work SO hard and strive toward an important goal, and then once I have it I quickly move on and barely feel content or happy.

I think my inner world is so much richer than what reality can give me, so nothing ever lives up to my hopes or expectations.

Anyone else like this? Advice? I really just want to be happy with what I have.