r/UnsentTexts

Honestly probably way more than I should. Thoughts of you creep into my mind and I can’t stop them. I think about how happy you once made me. How much I looked forward to seeing you. How much I enjoyed hearing about your world. I think about your eyes and how they used to look at me. How you looked at me when you cared.

I think about how much it annoyed you that I could read you, and how much it flustered you.

I miss those days.

Please don’t be mad at me.
When I’m quiet, please understand…
I’m hurting and broken right now.
I’m isolating from everybody.
Trying to recollect my thoughts
and keep it together.
I’m sorry if I’m making you feel like I don’t care.
It’s not even like that.
I do care.
Way more than I ever show.
I am not seeing or talking to anybody.
I promise.
I’m not being reckless.
I’ve been using exercise and music as my coping mechanism outside of work and my household duties.
How about you?
How are you doing?
I hope you’re okay.
I miss you and I love you. 🫶

in another life i hope we could actually be in a relationship ,have cute dates , be silly together, watch the stars together because i know how much you love star gazing , call for hours,share our battles together,watch movies together,eat together, live together with a cat and a dog , you can be the cookhusband that you joked about,it’ll just be us living a happy life together , eventually this life has disappointed me with not giving me the only thing ive ever wanted but i hope one day you’ll understand how much i actually loved you.

I hope I get to speak with you again, see your face, smile and laugh again. I know things are the way they are, ( though I wish they weren’t), but I still want you, need you, and crave you. Your voice, thoughts, and points of view so different than mine, all of it was home. You were my home. I know I didn’t handle everything the right way but life is messy and I did what I thought was best. Retrospective makes it easy to see the mistakes I made but I never thought it would lead us to where we are. No matter what I will always be here forever hoping. I love you always.

I don’t think I could ever block you. I go through so many waves of feeling okay then the bad day hits. I know this is unfair of me to not respect your boundaries by msging you again so im sorry, and I’ll be quick.
Ive recently learnt about a type of ADHD called RSD and while reading about it i was suddenly filled with a panic that I felt to my bones. If you hadn’t ended the relationship Im not sure if I ever would have looked for meaning deep inside myself. I always knew I was defensive but i think I just blamed others for that.
I might be wrong and I’ll wait to see if im diagnosed but even if not I know now there’s a reason every relationship I have is one sided. I said ive been working on myself for a while but I still always had the selfish feeling of being betrayed by you and thats why I was so cold. I have so much more to learn about myself to form healthy relationships in the future and I hope it doesn’t take the rest of my life because after I eventually sort out the why I do things and how to change my reactions then I want to find out who you were. Like really were inside, the way your brain works. Even if you don’t wish to speak again (which id understand I really would) i owe it to everyone else in my life past and future to be able to see how people perceive things and react. And to be patient and understanding and im sorry that you didnt get that from me.
Thankyou for everything.
I hope you have healed in someway and hope even more you never end up with a ‘me’ again. You are the turning point of my life. This isn’t about trying to change anything between us i just needed to let you know that you weren’t wrong with how you felt about me. The closeness then nothing if that makes sense.
You don’t need to reply.
I haven’t even thought about and won’t be looking for a partner for a long time. Until I know I can be there for myself and not hurt them like I did with you unknowingly.
You will always be my best friend either in spirit or eventually in person.
I will love you forever.
(Sorry that was meant to be a short msg)

Hello not trying g to be rude here, but I feel like something like this is meant for a particular someone. But nobody knows who you are speaking to. And we cannot encourage reaching out, how can anyone reach out to bury any hatchet if they are uncertain its for them, but from what I have seen and if anyone agrees with me then this app is I would best describe as notes on the human condition. Because most people on here all have the same kind of experiences and meet the same kind of people , and make the same mistakes. So we all want to believe that finally it's our person, and omg they said the thing I been Waiting to hear, and are flooded with all these warm fuzzy feelings. Then they come to find out. Nope, it wasn't them it's like watching a house of cards fall. It's so exciting because it happened it finally happened. They apologized too, and now they want to move ahead and build something. Then it falls I. An instant . Blink of an eye its gone. Only with an apology as heavy as this one, someone somewhere will greatly appreciate this whoever you person may be.....im sure this would make their night.

But you would never like me back, and I’m also older than you by idk how many years…I’m guessing like 5 years or something… I’m 30 years old and I’m guessing your like maybe 24? Ish or somewhere around there. To be honest I’m not sure how I feel about this crush, but I just know you’re incredibly nice to me whenever I see you and you smile and laugh. It seems like you like me too, but I think I’m just making it up in my head. Our lives are so much different but at the same time intertwined by me living pretty much above your workplace 😂. Anyways you’re so handsome, intelligent and kind. I know you’re going to make some women very happy some day!

You know it isnt over, there is no way that what we had can just vanish like that. I am very sorry for what I did, and how awful it made you feel. I am very sorry you felt so incredibly disrespected and degraded. Not everything you heard afterwards was true. If you want finality, then reach out to me and tell me how you feel. I want to hear the truth from you, no matter what it is. I have so much to say too. The version of me that you saw doesnt exist anymore.

I wish I could tell you all my thoughts and feelings. But I’m afraid and tired.

Truly it’s just that. I want to talk to you. I want to have conversations with you again. When your name popped up again in my notifications I got butterflies. I got so excited. I kept my distance. I stayed quiet and never interacted. I thought you moved on. I truly never thought I’d ever talk to you again. But you reached out

Though even now we’re not even talking. I’m giving you space. I know you need it. I don’t know what you’re feeling, you said you’re dealing with a lot of things and I just want to know. I want you to talk to me please. I want this time to be better. I need you in my life. I missed you so much. I still love you. Could we start again please.

I hope you’re doing well. I’m glad to hear you’re taking time to understand yourself and heal. It’s never an easy journey, and I am proud of you. I genuinely wish you the best with your process and hope it continues to bring you clarity and growth with yourself and future relationships. I’m sure you’re dying to get inside my mind, I might let you next time around.

I’ll be patiently waiting for you, like I told you I would.

I love you big much. ❤️

That’s it. Go after what you love. Who you love. Life is short.

I shouldn't have gone onto the unreads.

I wish anyone understood how damaging it is reading stuff that sounds like you

But may or may not be you.

I get im a failure, in love.

Im better at dreaming I guess.

I needed you to be the one to break that barrier and show up for me.

Maybe you expect the same thing?

Maybe youre also going through a really hard time ?

Is it like this for you too?

This scary? This confusing?

A mixture of high hopes and heavy sharp crashes of darkness?

Waves that I cant keep fighting to see the light house flicker out.

Idk.

Losing hope. Strawberry fields.

It was a dream and I love you.

Maybe I never get to make it home.

Maybe I do.

I just want to say it became a hall of mirrors and mixed signals

And I never meant to be the one to let you down.

It is like the wonderland signs, and I dont have proper glasses

But dont remember me as fickle. FRACTURED.

Sure.

I thought I remembered, but I guess I was wrong.

Im sorry.

Im so sorry.

I will be here, wherever here leads.

Dreaming of you forever.

Ya know it really hit me earlier what if we don’t speak again.. Baby I am terrified of losing you..

I prayed and prayed and prayed! I will not let god or you down.. pls Jesus I really need this one..

I'm so terribly sorry for every form of pain I've caused you. My jealousy and lack of trust has created a real rift in our relationship, and I'm not sure we can mend it. Please know I never wanted it to be like this. So painful and messy. My immature pathetic behavior pushes you further when all I want Is to be by your side. I would be more than understanding if you wanted to be out of my life. I don't hold it against you. Your happiness is what matters, despite the ups and downs, your happiness was the only thing I ever wanted

You’ve been one of the greatest gifts and most important teachings I’ve come across in this lifetime. You’ve shown me that we often have no idea what we truly need until it shows up in front of us. I need you to know how much you’re appreciated. Whenever you’re not around, I’ll always speak highly of you and guard your name with care. It’s funny how you unintentionally highlighted so many wounds I believed were fully healed, but clearly weren’t. You weren’t trying to do any of that, you were simply being yourself. In the process, you became the reflection I needed to honestly examine my own strengths and shortcomings. Even though part of me wants more, I can say with my whole heart that I’d cherish you in any form our connection takes. I’m convinced you came into my life for a purpose, and I don’t take a single thing you’ve brought me for granted. I can’t picture going through life without you, and I hope you feel just as safe and comfortable with me as I do with you. You’re truly one of a kind, and I pray the world keeps treating you with softness and kindness. All of this to say… I love you

Let’s deconstruct this mutual longing and finally press our lips together in a private space. I want to so badly. I hope you want to so badly. It’s a quiet moment in a tornado right now. Not that what is, is dramatic. This is disruptive. For sure. This may be aggressive, absolutely, and terror-able.

Dude, I’m sorry. This is how I talk. Let’s hold hands and walk into whatever happens after spring.

I am ready. I want it. I will help you up-end and rebuild.

You were always good at giving me advice, in a way.

You were always good at setting me straight when I was doing something stupid.

Some of the things you’ve said to me have stayed with me over the years.

I think i want to talk to you about what i’m going through, but i don’t know if you’d want to listen?

You were right, I feel so alone.

But you and I both know it would never be enough… all the time and all the days l would still want one more day, even just in your proximity… I’d say life is unfair but it really isn’t.

u reach out then I reply and ur silent..the games are crazy