i miss you too and i do think about you all the time. i’ve thought over a million times what it would be like to do everything we used to and how it might be different this time, but im scared that things won’t be different and ill have to learn how to be without you all over again. you’ve made mistakes in the past and i don’t trust you to not make them again.
just wondering, sometimes his toes are visible on one foot and sometimes they’re not. these are all taken within the last two weeks
he had reached out after i had him blocked for two months, i unblocked to see if he would say happy birthday (which is a bit stupid, but i didn’t want to make it seem like i ignored his message if he did). he had drunk texted me saying he still loved me, and sent another text the day after saying that it wasn’t just a drunk text and he meant it. i didn’t respond, but he sent another string of texts asking to talk, and i couldn’t pretend i didn’t see them. once i sent these messages, he stopped responding. i’m just hoping i wasn’t too harsh.
hi everyone, i’m dealing with a housing situation in ontario and i’m not sure what my options are.
i signed a summer sublet for a student apartment building. before i signed, the person i’m subletting from told me that both of his roommates had cancelled their leases and that because the building usually only offers full-year leases starting in the fall, it was unlikely anyone would move into those rooms. he strongly implied i’d have the whole unit to myself, and when i asked if he could lower the price a bit, he basically said i was already getting a good deal because i’d likely have the whole unit to myself.
when i signed the sublet paperwork, there was also a gender preference section and i selected female.
i moved in today and found out one of the other rooms is occupied by a man. i had no idea someone else had moved in, and there’s also another empty room.
what made me even more uncomfortable was that when i arrived, i noticed explicit sexual websites open on his laptop in the shared kitchen/common area, including what looked like an escort/spa website. i understand people have private lives, but as a woman who unexpectedly found out i’m living alone with a man i never agreed to live with, this made me feel really unsafe and uncomfortable.
building management isn’t available on weekends, so i can’t contact them until monday. the person i’m subletting from said he’s going to contact management and try to get it resolved, and he also offered to reimburse me for one month of rent.
the issue is that if this situation can’t be fixed (for example, if one of us can’t be moved), i’m not comfortable continuing to live here at all. i’d rather terminate the sublet and find somewhere else than accept partial reimbursement and stay.
i already paid the full sublet amount upfront.
i’m wondering:
does the building have any responsibility since i selected female preference?
does the original tenant have responsibility for misleading me about the living situation?if this can’t be resolved, can i terminate the sublet?
do i have any chance of getting my money back?
EDIT: i spoke to management, they said they actually never received the paperwork i filled out from the person im subletting from. they don’t have my name on file at all. they won’t do anything, i demanded my money back from my sublessor, what options do i have now :(
hi everyone, i’m dealing with a housing situation in ontario and i’m not sure what my options are.
i signed a summer sublet for a student apartment building. before i signed, the person i’m subletting from told me that both of his roommates had cancelled their leases and that because the building usually only offers full-year leases starting in the fall, it was unlikely anyone would move into those rooms. he strongly implied i’d probably have the whole unit to myself, and when i asked if he could lower the price a bit, he basically said i was already getting a good deal because i’d likely have the whole unit to myself.
when i signed the sublet paperwork, there was also a gender preference section and i selected female.
i moved in today and found out one of the other rooms is occupied by a man. i had no idea someone else had moved in, and there’s also another empty room.
what made me even more uncomfortable was that when i arrived, i noticed explicit sexual websites open on his laptop in the shared kitchen/common area, including what looked like an escort/spa website. i understand people have private lives, but as a woman who unexpectedly found out i’m living alone with a man i never agreed to live with, this made me feel really unsafe and uncomfortable.
building management isn’t available on weekends, so i can’t contact them until monday. the person i’m subletting from said he’s going to contact management and try to get it resolved, and he also offered to reimburse me for one month of rent.
the issue is that if this situation can’t be fixed (for example, if one of us can’t be moved), i’m not comfortable continuing to live here at all. i’d rather terminate the sublet and find somewhere else than accept partial reimbursement and stay.
i already paid the full sublet amount upfront.
i’m wondering:
does the building have any responsibility since i selected female preference?
does the original tenant have responsibility for misleading me about the living situation?if this can’t be resolved, can i terminate the sublet?
do i have any chance of getting my money back?