u/Hour_Sentence5586

Has anyone ever gone from hating yourself and being uncomfortable in your skin / picking than elves apart and hating what you see in the mirror, to genuinly loving yourself and being confident and charasmatic? If so, how did you do it? Practical steps would be welcome!

You’d laugh if you saw who’s writing this post because I’m objectively a very attractive girl (according to others) but I absolutely don’t feel it and my lack of confidence is taking over my life! It’s ruining my rizz and my aura, I’m just an insecure awkward person and I want that to change but I don’t know how, I’ve been like this my whole life

And im talking about CHARISMA as inner peace, not just looks. Is it actually possible to go from insecure loser to baddie with sex appeal, charm and confidence? If so… HOW?

What are some beauty treatments (I’m talking lasers / boosters / facials / peels / other treatments) that have actually “reverse aged” you and you have seen a genuine difference in your skin? Something you think was worth the money that made you look noticeably prettier and more refreshed! Also keen to hear about products and at home devices like that wand thing with the lights on that pushed your product into your skin.

Ive tried microneedling (at home), Rejuran/polyneucotides (salmon dna) injected into my skin and under my eyes but I just felt like it was the biggest waste of money cos I didn’t really notice a difference. And it was EXPENSIVE. I do Botox which I love and I’ve done fillers once but I don’t want to do them again, they scare me! I’m holding out for a fat transfer when I’m a bit older.

I want to try lasers I was looking into “the number one laser” they do at therapie clincic but I’m scared about wasting my money again.

For reference I’m a 32 year old female and I look good for my age, still get ID’d sometimes! Im not good at drinking water and consistently getting enough sleep but I regularly use a red light therapy mask and pretty good with consistent skincare (retinol, vit c, hyloronic acid etc) but I’m definitely starting to notice big pores, dull skin with less bounce/volume and brightness, and more pasty looking translucent skin (starting to see small things like blood vessels which I know you can zap with lasers but their barely noticeable right now).

Any help would be appreciated! Thanks! Xxx