u/Huge-Sugar-4630

Me and my husband (23F, 25M) are looking to move out of Iowa, and we’re talking small town Iowa (less than 1500 people) i made decent money managing a small steakhouse and he’s currently in construction sales, we have incredibly cheap cost of living which is what has tied us down here for so long, i have lived within a 30 minute radius my whole life and we’re itching to move somewhere better. We’re looking for a midsized city, near Arizona since we have family there, im also hoping to get into a more serious sommelier role. Where is somewhere along the west side of the US that has a great food scene, not just restaurants but also produce and protein, and still experiences most seasons? It feels like we’re asking a lot but we are so overwhelmed every time we look.

Me (24F) and my husband (26M) have a very inconsistent sex life, when we first got together we didn’t have a lot of sex until 3-4 months of dating, and then we started having A LOT, as well as getting kinkier and more adventurous, I then had severe onset MS which caused our sex life to come to zero, as well as resentment since he thought i wasn’t in as much pain as i was, slowly we built in back up but we haven’t gotten nearly as kinky, i have been struggling with my libido going completely dormant, unless we have good sex and continually build on it, where i can then feel motivated to have sex multiple times a day, whereas he will go days without building on it and then my libido goes away entirely again, any advice?