Don’t know what to do, either be a good example of bad one
So I have a good female colleague (friend) of mine in office same department also we sit just next to each other, it’s been more than 7 months in the same office we talk a lot we know about each other stories. We go for dinner many a times.
So there was a new year party in my office……we all were enjoying,me and my female friend we just sat at a corner with our drinks [ she was having her mojito and I was having my whiskey] 1-suddenly the founder of the company came and said that why are you guys not enjoying the party, you guys are together in the office also why are you not mingling with others. Then we gave our response which was quite decent that we just came to the party we will come join for dance soon. 2- Then after dancing 2 hrs with all the office friends, me and my friend just sat on the sofa for dinner then there was research manager ( female) who sat beside us and said that are you guys dating, my response was clear that no we are not then ( she was overly drunk) then she said to my friend that why not you show his picture to your boyfriend and say him hey get lost I have a cute guy here. At that time I was just trying to shut her up but as she was too drunk she was out of control. 3- After that out of a sudden she ( manager) ask me a question that I like her ( my female friend) or not “ I said yes offc but as a good friend” then she stops and she went. 4- But the main thing happened after 1 day of leave, we came to office on Monday where my friend just ask me that what was that on Saturday night party I said what, she said mtlb do you like me! I said yes but as a good friend, the she said that you know my so called boyfriend ( actually they are not in a relationship they are in a situationship also I very well know about there physical relation) “so my boyfriend used to say the same thing when we were not dating that I like you a friend”
My question is that am I doing something wrong if I confess my feelings to her in future because at present I don’t have such feelings for her, like I care about her, yes iam attach to her no doubt but that’s just an attachment nothing else.
So the thing is if I confess her that I really like not like a friend but as good partner then she will think that every boy is same and don’t want to be that such creep example in her life.