Don’t manifest a specific person; manifest the love and relationship you want.
I believe in manifestation because I’ve seen it work in other areas of my life, but relationships are confusing for me.
About 2 months ago, I joined a dating app for the first time(I do believe in real connection )and met a guy. We talked almost every day and spent around two months getting to know each other. He treated me amazingly, made me feel cared for, and was very responsible and intentional with me. It was honestly the first time I experienced that kind of treatment from someone, and I really started seeing a future with him.
Recently, we had a serious conversation about our future. The main issue is that we come from different religions (I don't know his language and his family doesn't know english) . He feels that it could become very difficult in the future and is worried that his family might not accept the relationship. We had a long conversation about it, and I understand why he feels that way, but I still have feelings for him.
This is where I'm confused about manifestation.
I’ve heard people say “don’t manifest a specific person; manifest the love and relationship you want.” But what if I genuinely want this particular person? Is it wrong to manifest that we find our way back to each other? Or should I completely let go of the person and focus only on manifesting the qualities and kind of relationship I want?
I don't want to force or control anyone's choices. I just want a healthy, mutual, loving relationship with someone who chooses me fully.
For those who believe in manifestation, how do you manifest your life partner without becoming attached to a specific outcome? What did you actually do—affirmations, scripting, visualization, letting go, etc.?
I’d really appreciate hearing about your experiences. ❤️