u/Hungry_Argument_4357

Anxiety in pregnancy after TFMR

I really hope I’m okay to post here. I had a TFMR last September at 24+5 with a baby we had longed for, for 5 years. We were devastated and are still heartbroken that our baby boy is no longer with us.
I suffer from PCOS so have always had irregular period and hadn’t had one since October - March.
We planned to try again in April and this Monday I had a positive test at 10 DPO. My anxiety is through the roof, I’m paranoid it’s going to happen again and I’m so so scared but also blessed that we have been given the gift of pregnancy again. How is everyone coping with the anxiety? I’ve read that the chance of needing to TFMR again is around 1% and after all our genetics tests we’ve been given a 1/10 chance of the same issues happening again (severe rarer brain deformities)

I just don’t know how to handle the stress and anxiety 😔I’m testing every single day to make sure that line is still there and getting darker 😩

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u/Hungry_Argument_4357 — 7 days ago
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Hello! After a sanity check please. I have a 7.5 month old Sprocker spaniel puppy. He pulls like a steam train when he’s on the lead (we are working on this) but my partner is usually the one to hold the lead whilst we are out as he is stronger than I am!

The issue is…my partner has broken his ankle and is currently waiting for surgery. I work full time and also need to get to the hospital after work before visiting hours finish.

Am I okay to just take pup on shorter walks in the evening for the time being until my partner is home? He can have longer walks in the mornings where he can run around and play with his ball and we play a lot during the day as I WFH and has plenty of mental enrichment throughout the day too.

I just need to check I’m not going to ruin all our progress in his training or even upset him (silly I know) by just having quick 15-20 minute walks in the evenings.

I would take him out once back from the hospital but I will be on my own at night and just don’t like the thought of going out on my own that late.

I have someone that will be coming to sit with him whilst I’m visiting the hospital but it’s not possible for them to walk him due to their own mobility issues and his lead pulling.

Thanks

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u/Hungry_Argument_4357 — 16 days ago