Young Mother, looking for advice on when to start working again.
Hello, I'm 22(F) my son is 2 years old. I want to start working again. But, my husband doesn't want to put our son into daycare. He " doesn't want someone else raising our kid." It is also expensive and such. I don't really do well at home. I feel way more productive under structured routine. As a SAHM I feel like I'm loosing myself a bit. I love my son, and feel a bit guilty that I want to be working. I know other women don't get the option of staying home and would love to. I was considering waiting until my sons in Kindergarten. My husband wants more kids, I also want my son to have a sibilng. I don't know if I should have another baby now, or go back to work and then have one later or what. I'm feeling a bit conflicted cause I'm not sure about what I should do. Will it be easier to have another baby now? then wait until they are both in school to start working. but then I would be at home another 6 or so years... that feels like a long time. I don't know. Should I have another kid now and wait? or start working, put him in daycare. I honestly don't know what's the right thing to do. all advice is greatly appreciated. sorry if I seem a bit scatterbrained and unplanned. I thought I wanted to have a lot of kids and be a SAHM. Now I have a son, and I'm kind of back pedaling on how hard it actually is.