My parents took away my bank cards and all the money I had because I started earning money and they insist that I'm irresponsible.
I know this will be a bit of a long rant and im sorry about that.
Hi I'm 18(M) and have recently started getting my scholarship and the money in my bank card has been saving up for when I start my driving lessons and possibly a future car but my parents took it all away. My parents have been super strict since we moved to another country and ever since I have mentioned getting or even applying for a scholarship they have been happy and planning for small vacations I "maybe" would help with or household things like a whole vacuum cleaner and even accessories like bracelets rings earrings which I would buy for them. My mom is a housewife (she stays at home and doesn't work but idk if thats what its called) and my dad is working above minimum wage just enough to not go to extreme every month.
The scholarship I applied for was delayed by a few months and I got the money I was supposed get for all the previous months at once so it was like 6k at the end at once. I wasn't planning on telling them how much I was getting from it because they have been so problematic about the money that first of all doesn't belong to them and doesn't even exist in the first place yet but they somehow saw that I got it and the amount. After I couldn't find my card anywhere I went to confront them and they said they took it because I'm still young and irresponsible with this amount of money I never had. I kinda understood where they were coming from and I sat them down and talked about it but they somehow huult tripped me into not resisting and accepting it as is but after some time of thinking again I confronted them and stood my ground but my mom started crying and almost cursing me because I'm such an ungrateful not supporting child about should help them financially. Some time had still passes and I still can't get my bank card and a few days ago I say a GOLD BRACELET around my moms arm. I didn't question or confront them because there would be no point because I basically am speaking to a wall. Mind you that bracelet is around 2000€.......
I don't want anything done legally like court or smth because I do love my parents but this has gotten out of hand. They give me around 100€ a month for all my expenses. Yes that also includes clothes, food, hobbies, emergencies and all. Idk what to do. Would I be a prick if I did some legal action towards them?