u/Iamlosthelppls

Idk why but I know this girl she's in my college but different departments poles apart. We are both IT students met on a 45 days training. We only talked like at the last day but had a bit of banter in between too. Last day we got to talk cause her mutual friends birthday who was studying with was on that day. We brought the cake they invited us we partied and talked alot for the first time on the last day.

We also had a farewell and me and friends and her and her bestie decided we'll go (together). Had loads of fun there too and I asked for their insta as well.

Have only met her once since then for just few minutes. I didn't text her and it's been 15 days. She is exactly my type. She is introverted but becomes extrovert when ice melts, tall and not to mention extremely good looking. She talks in Hindi just like me (even though we both speak perfect punjabi and both are punjabi by birth).

I feel like this is one sided she's rich and also way out of my league in every way possible. My crush might be one sided cause she has never dated despite being so preety and I got to know she also rejected a very good looking himachali guy in her class who asked her out.

Idk I admire her so much pls help 😭😭

I'll keep it as short as I can. I with my other friend attended this training program for 45 days which had 10 students (including us)

It went all good we all cracked jokes and laughs but me and my friends are introvert af so we didn't interact with the girls much.

There were 2 friends just like us (let's call them Disha and Hina) so they're in our college as we found out but didn't talk to them much at all. They laughed at our jokes so did we but nothing huge.

So during the last days they actually asked us to help arrange a cake for this girl in our class for her birthday. This was the first time they talked to us properly. We got the cake as followed and they paid us but we insisted to contribute as well.

Their as we were about to leave they insisted we party with them and we all did for 3 hours. This was the first time we openly talked and we talked alot and I actually liked her personality alot (mind you she is very preety) but I liked her vibes alot and of her friend as well.

We also met in our institute's farewell party where they went for the last time and also asked us to be here. It's safe to say both duos were there only for the other.

Things were a bit boring at first but soon our Convo took off and I talked alot with Disha and she did too. It was amazing, the filter was at most gone.

We danced, talked etc. At last I even asked for insta (got both of them) and my buddy did too. We also dropped them to the bus stand and paid for their auto fair (as a good gesture if that matters).

Now I have there insta and I haven't texted them and they haven't texted us either. I did like her stories though. We are in the same college but their departments are 500M away from our's and it's a big college so we don't usually cross paths. I dk but I do have a subtle crush on her and don't know what to do with it.

Extra: Also I ended up posting my gym physique under pressure from my friend on story. It was offcourse alot of skin so both the girls saw it ( which tbh I thought they wouldn't) but both mutually decided not to like the post 💀 I mean fair enough but I feel like I got played by my friend into making a dumb move and now it's only going to cost me more. What can I do?

Obsessed with certain punjabi woman 😭

I might be crushing on this girl and idk if I should pursue this or not?