Do not all people like to feel seen?
So I know many people who interact with INFJs say they feel seen, but it got me wondering if not everyone likes that. I say this because there are more moments than I can count where I am fully attentive to the other person and they start to feel tense, sometimes uneasy or nervous despite me not doing anything. This is more common with strangers and acquaintances, not so much with friends and family.
When I give my full attention to people I can sense if they're being sincere, genuine, honest, insincere, dishonest, nervous, cunning, snobbish, etc. Many times it feels like they can sense I am not just looking at them, but seeing them as a whole, then there is a sort of tense undertone between the interaction. Does not everybody like to feel seen?