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Ex-room mate trouble

Watch out for this room mate because he just ruins

We had a really bad room mate up until recently. When i moved into a unit with my partner there was already 2 people in there. So this guy never liked me anyway. About a couple months after i moved in lets call him (b) got sick. So my partner basically dropped everything to help him and so do i. Fast forward to the begining of the year- we have done multpile things by then. Hes still on the couch coz hes just being a absolute nasty character, starting fights if you take his food while he takes yours (insert sarcastic voice) "i didnt know it was yours" . Then over the course of the year proceeded to break almost $1000 of my things- never replaced them even though said he would. So i ended up moving what i had left. I have an itemised list of expences b never replaced.

Fast forward to now-- we moved out and because my partners parents owned the place and obviously decided to sell we are living somewhere else. Once we got out of there he lived there by himself. So in the 2 weeks we were gone we had to go back to clean up and throw out things. So once he was gone- the first place i go is to room he was in - broken glass everywhere, plates, cans, cuttlery-- MY glasses. I kid you not a wine glass was growing mold. And obviously we had to clean up after him. The room smelt like piss. Walk into the bathroom where he has pissed all over the floor and just left it. Laundry- trashed. I walked into the spare room to see dried dog shit on the other carpet and lets not go into the theater.... kitchen stuff left everywhere including hard boiled egg. He took a few of his things- tv books clothes but everything else. Still there.

An added detail was- drunk by 11 am or 9am i dont remember. But obviously neither does he...20l of wine in one week. Hed afterpay his wine then make us pay it back because when he had the money would go mainly to more wine. He even had me continuosly take him go to the bottle shop (but the reason he couldnt drive is another story)

But through all this he became dumber, constantly repeating the same things all the time. And in that time he would also start fights over the smallest things. Get up in the middle of the night and when he was drinking it was worse. Hed pass out on the couch trash rooms and then blame us the next morning because he had no memory of doing that. So angry that we had to clean up after him when he left...4 hours added on after we finished up our day. Friendships ruined, relationships ruined by a 40 year old man child. A man child who took advantage of niceness just to be a rude old man who just takes and breaks things that arent his and others need to clean up after him

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u/IdeaFunny5443 — 20 days ago

Clinic for endo

Has anyone been to a pelvic pain clinic or refered to one. Im kinda nervous because ive been to so many doctors before and been dismissed by almost all of them.

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