u/Ill-Instructions

This was when I was 25, I'm now 28. She taped an airtag to the bottom of my car. The car was fully pad off, and registered my dad-- they are still legally married but have been living separately since 2015. She doesn't understand why I'm afraid of her, and when I found the airtag I felt I couldn't complain because I'm living in my childhood home with her because rent is so high. Looking back (3 years) I wish I had went to the police. Anyone know if they could have arrested her? Taping an airtag secretly under your 25 year old daughter's car just because she is living with you and making sure I'm going to work? It still has me afraid of her (well I've been afraid of her my whole life but this is one of the very many things that is significant/stands out to me) is what she did legal?

My mom is 75 and her boyfriend is 77. We have not been getting along lately when they were over for past week and it culminated with her boyfriend chasing after me through the house and up the driveway repeatedly calling me stupid, asking why I am so stupid, why I'm such a stupid person, and what is wrong with me. So I got in my car and backed out the driveway and drove away. 2 days later, his insurance keeps calling me saying that he states I struck his parked car, which is completely false. But my Mom takes his side and both of them are probably saying "I saw her hit the car!" when I did not. My car has no damaged, so idk how they're gonna say I hit a car? And I believe they are just lying about this against me because they are both very, very unwell and immature people. I am wondering what I should say to his insurance because they keep contacting me wanting me to make a statement, and I feel sort of hopeless because it's both of them saying "I saw it" so it's 2 against 1, me all alone. And I am wondering if the would like track my cell phone location data or anything because that would prove I was there, but I didn't hit his car at all. I got into my car and drove away because he was chasing me screaming at me-- in hindsight, maybe I should have just called the police. I'm just not sure if I should mention at all to the insurance lady who keeps calling me that the 2 people accusing me, are my mom and her boyfriend, and her boyfriend especially is very sick and weird and angry and it was on the day of an argument etc so I think they are just doing this to get even or punish me or something?

they are similar but different-- basically, a friend gets obsessed w solving a crime and gets her friends roped into solving it with her (ironically both shows they go to canada but different contexts. Has anyone seen both? prefer one or the other?

I went to the dentist 8 times this past month of July because I needed to get 3 crowns made and fitted while my insurance would still pay for it (deadline is Aug 1.) I also had braces as a kid so have never had a fear of dentists. I went on Wednesday and they put on 2 of my crowns, they had put on 1 crown th Friday before, and before that were a couple appts where they had to shave down my teeth, take x-rays etc. So all that's left is filling cavities. I went on Friday 2 days ago and as soon as I got into the chair I just started having a panic attack, he couldn't even start. I immediately started pouring sweat and was like tugging on my fingers and wrists, and they gave me these safety glasses to wear (like always) but I took them off 3 times to wipe my sweat and the condensation off of them before he could even start. The dentist I was seeing is super nice and I had seen him exactly 1 week before, and he's always checking in if anything's hurting etc, so right before he started I just freaked out after trying to keep it together and was like "I'm so sorry can I come back another day? I just can't do this today, I'm really hot and I'm sweating a lot" and he asked "was this before or when you got into the chair?" and I said it started in the chair even though the 20 min I was in the waiting room I was having hot flashes and then when I got called back and put into the chair I just sort of lost broke down. I said to him like I'm so sorry for wasting your time today, because I've been many times this month and this hasn't happened, I told him about how I didn't have my anxiety medication this morning because I was a day before prescriptions. I wasn't crying or hyperventilating I just was like super hot and sweaty and couldn't sit still and he already out the numbing gel in my mouth and was about to recline my chair when he asked how I was doing and I was like I can't do this today I'm sorry I'm so hot I'm so nervous I'm so sorry I'm sweating so much, and this has never happened before. He was really nice and assured me this happens sometimes, I know people have a fear of the dentist sometimes but I'm literally so so beyond embarrassed. He asked me to sit in the waiting room for a bit to call down but I was just so anxious and hot and sweating, he asked how will I get home will I be ok, and I just needed to get out I said I'll take an uber and he says did you drive yourself here and I did so I said yeah but i'll just uber it's okay cause I only live 10 minutes away. Then when they were helping the next patient I sort of slipped out of the office and went in my car and as soon as I was in my car the sweating and hot flashes stopped. How do I ever go back? i'm so embarrassed. They didn't do anything wrong they were super nice but when I was in my car calming down the front office called me asking if I got home OK and i'm just so embarrassed. I feel like it was so weird too cause I've been multiple times this month and this didn't happen

On Wednesday I was at stop & shop and had 5-6 items in my cart. The store was not busy (I wasn't blocking anyone pathways) and parked my cart at an endcap and stepped away for 1 minute (no exaggeration) to grab a bag of chips and when I came back, the cart was gone. I spent 10 minutes walking around the store looking for it thinking a customer took it, but nothing, and I had to leave without buying anything because most of the items were grab & go prepared items and I got the last one... Fast forward to today, I go to a different stop & shop a few miles away, grab a cart, grab some popsicles and put them in my cart and then park at an endcap again. The store is 90% empty (not busy.) I'm gone this time for TWENTY seconds to grab bread and when I get back, I see a worker running off with my cart with the popsicles. I have to jog up to her and she's handing my cart off to a guy worker saying "bring it to self checkout" and I'm saying "that's my cart, that's mine" and the guy just shrugs and is like "oh." Not even a "sorry about that" wtf?? I understand if you think a cart is abandoned, but how are you gonna see any random cart and just take it, when if they had waited 1 minute they'd see in both cases it wasn't abandoned?
My sister worked at a different (not either of these 2 stores) stop & shop for 2-3 years and said it was horrible and people were beyond dumb..... is it yalls policy to just see a cart and take it? Not wait a few minutes to see if someone just stepped away for a minute? Lesson learned though, only going to Market Basket now and can't step away from cart for 30 seconds without it getting taken.