Highly unlikely for Aphants to misremember/make up an incident that never actually happened?

My husband has a strong mind's eye. I have absolutely zero - no flashes, no words, no nothing.

I'm not saying I have a great memory. Far from it since I can't visualise a scene or whatever. But I've noticed he might get something as big as the location of an event wrong, or who we were with. I remember, not because I SEE it in my mind, but because I remember the atmosphere, worries, thoughts, feelings from those moments.

On whether an incident actually took place or not:

There have been times where we argue about whether something actually happened, for example, him repositioning a picture frame the night before. He swears that he never did it. I cannot visualise it but I remember him doing it. I know for sure it is more likely that he forgot it happened than it is for me to totally make up (and believe!) something that didn't happen at all!

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 12 days ago

Qingcheng - Front or Back Mountain for a day trip?

Travelling with husband and 8 year old child (who LOVES caves). We'll be based in Chengdu and want to do a day trip to Qingcheng but am struggling to decide on which side.

Any advice or experiences? We're all good walkers although we'll probably use the cable car for some bits whether we go the Front or Back side of the mountain.

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 13 days ago

Capturing a person's soul in a portrait

What do you think it means when people say that an artist has captured the soul of the person they drew/painted?

Is it in the eyes? What does it mean for you?

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 2 months ago

Do you think Michael could have had juggled a serious romantic relationship if he found the right girl in the late-70s/80s?

Or would a relationship have been too much of a distraction full stop?

And what would she have had to be like?

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 2 months ago

If Michael wanted to move on from the Billie Jean performances, moonwalks, etc. would you have minded?

I feel bad that he always felt the pressure to be the whole package to his fans who expect both song and dance. Apparently he joked to Katherine that he didn't want to do the moonwalk on stage at the age of 50. The idea of him performing this and that because people expect it makes me sad. I would have wanted him to eventually focus on whatever art he wants even if it means not performing his usual highly-anticipated routines again. Surely he was tired of them.

Too bad he never got to the next stage of his career.

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 3 months ago

Do you think Michael would have liked you?

I think Michael and I would have connected over drawings. I love pencil portraits. We'd talk about science-fiction, religion, politics, language, old movies, etc. I'm shy and hate vulgarity as well.

And I LOVE children and babies.

I'm atheist - but somewhat spiritual...and I think we're both open-minded enough to discuss these large subjects without getting personal/heated.

He said he likes classy ladies. Now by that, I take it to mean he likes women who don't swear, who hold themselves up with dignity, and who are gracious. I don't think it's to do with glamour or prissiness. A woman can climb trees AND have class!

But if he whacks me with a pillow, I will NOT back down. Haha

Our friendship/relationship would be lovely and simple, but who knows as time went on. I'm a realist and I probably would have given him advice that he wouldn't have liked. He might have eventually added me to the Ignore list, unfortunately.

You?

Interesting insight into what Michael wants in a relationship or in a woman here:

https://vindicatemj.wordpress.com/2010/03/24/michael-jackson-for-me-love-is-something-very-pure/

(Someone posted this topic 3 years ago so go check that thread for previous answers)

u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 3 months ago

2-Week relaxed Itinerary

Hi everyone,

We are planning a relaxed 2-week trip to Chengdu in November.

Hoping to see a lot of autumn leaves and beautiful scenery!

(NOTE: We previously spent an amazing 2 weeks just in Hangzhou which was perfect for us)

Here is our rough itinerary.

Chengdu (6 nights) places we are interested in:

  • Panda Research Base
  • Du Fu Cottage
  • Wuhou Shrine
  • Science and Technology Museum
  • Pedestrian streets (Kuanzhai, Taikoo Li, Jinli, Chunxi)
  • Sanhe Classic Car Museum (for my son)
  • Anshun Bridge / Dongmen Bridge
  • Sanxingdui (Day trip)

Jiuzhaigou (4 nights)

  • Jiuzhaigou
  • Huanglong

Chengdu (2 or 3 more nights before flying back to Australia)

We had originally planned to go to Qingcheng for 3 nights and then straight to Jiuzhaigou but it would be too stressful. So Jiuzhaigou will be our only one BIG trip away from Chengdu.

What are your thoughts?

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 4 months ago
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2 weeks in Chengdu in November (with a 7 year old)

Hi everyone,

We are planning a relaxed 2-week trip to Chengdu in November.

Hoping to see a lot of autumn leaves and beautiful scenery!

(NOTE: We previously spent an amazing 2 weeks just in Hangzhou which was perfect for us)

Here is our rough itinerary.

Chengdu (5 nights) places we are interested in:

  • Panda Research Base
  • Du Fu Cottage
  • Wuhou Shrine
  • Science and Technology Museum
  • Pedestrian streets (Kuanzhai, Taikoo Li, Jinli, Chunxi)
  • Sanhe Classic Car Museum (for my son)
  • Anshun Bridge / Dongmen Bridge
  • Sanxingdui (Day trip)

Qingcheng (3 nights)

  • Front mountain
  • Back mountain

Jiuzhaigou (3 nights)

  • Jiuzhaigou
  • Huanglong

Back to Chengdu for 2 more days/nights before flying back to Australia.

What are your thoughts?

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 4 months ago

Which 3 songs would you want Michael to serenade you with?

Imagine a scenario where you had Michael to yourself. After an intimate chat, what 3 songs would you love him to sing to you?

For me:

- Dirty Diana

Just kidding! 😂

Seriously though...

- One Day In Your Life

- Lady In My Life (the begging!!)

- If I Don't Love You This Way

https://youtu.be/alvJm9HdDjE

- All I Do is Think of You

https://youtu.be/pRD6kJEd8kc

Bonus: Break of Dawn

Damn, I can't even follow my own rules!

u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 4 months ago

Who is Michael talking about here?

In the transcript, he describes someone who he:

  • celebrated her 18th birthday with at Neverland
  • "Very independent, very strong-willed, yet very shy"
  • Comes across as a "very spoiled...only daughter"
  • "Never had fast food, and she loved American clothes" (which you'd say if she wasn't American)
  • Her parents had arranged a marriage for her
  • Very rich. Had her own bodyguards.

https://www.tapatalk.com/groups/you_are_not_alone/mj-phone-convo-transcripts-w-glenda-t672.html

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 4 months ago

Anyone else wish we could have had Michael just sit on a stool and sing several of his ballads?

The set list could have been something like:

  • Ben
  • One Day In Your Life
  • I Can't Help It
  • Lady In My Life (lights dimmed, of course!)
  • Childhood
  • Smile

Can you imagine? He always said that ballads were his favourite.

I think it would've been a lovely and intimate experience for Michael himself too.

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 4 months ago

Chengdu trip with 2 nights in Jiuzhaigou. Hotel question

Hi all, we plan to visit Chengdu for 13 nights. Hoping to spend 2 of those nights in Jiuzhaigou.

How should I go about booking hotels via Trip.com?

Is it more expensive to book Hotel A (Chengdu), Hotel B (Jiuzhaigou), and then Hotel A again?

Or should I just book Hotel A for the whole duration of the trip and book Hotel B on top of that? Is it cheaper this way...?

Also, do you recommend doing the Flight + Hotel package on Trip.com? Or do it separately?

As I said in a previous post, my grandma is unwell and if the worst happens, I may need to try and get a refund. I've heard that packaged bookings make that extra hard.

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 4 months ago

A special insight into mid to late-70s Michael by his school friend Darls Centola

A lovely interview with a lady who went to school with Michael and LaToya. She was also his Jehovah's Witness mentor and they'd have a lot of private sessions talking under a tree, etc.

I'm listening to the audiobook, narrated by Darls herself.

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 5 months ago
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Shi Yousan the 'Defector General' . What did he even believe in?

>Shi joined, defected from, then subsequently betrayed the forces of Wu Peifu, Feng Yuxiang, Chiang Kai-shek, Wang Jingwei, Zhang Xueliang, and the Chinese Communist Party (CCP).

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 5 months ago
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How to End US Hegemony in One Summit - interview with Warwick Powell

Interesting to hear Powell explain Xi Jinping's take on the Thucydides Trap.

Very good interview.

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u/IllustratorOpen7841 — 5 months ago