u/Illustrious-Issue761

I have no idea how I ended up here. It is not that I didn't make friends in college but its like I feel they dont appreciate my friendship as much as I do theirs and I know it is not a competition but every relationship is somewhat transactional and you don't want to be the one always making plans, and checking in people just because you dont want to be alone (I feel like I have been this person for forever somehow and I hate it)

I was recently watching a high school drama and it reminded me so much of why i would LOVE to have friends with whom I can really just share the weekends, do fun stuff. So if you are based in HSR, I would love to hear from you.

Here is a itsy bitsy about me:

1. I love travelling and have been to US, London, Finland, Singapore, Bhutan...and counting hehe.

2. I am a big foodie but just know that I am trying to get back to my good health which is why these days, i have my dinner at 7pm so unfortunately i cannot accompany you for any dinner plans, but lunch plans can be made. (also i am a vegetarian, do not drink or smoke so yeah id atleast prefer that you dont smoke)

3. I want to get more active, so if you wanna go workout together? we love a gym partner.

4. I love makeup, fashion, so if you wanna try a new style or shopping, id be so down for that

5. OH and i love dancing, you wanna learn a dance routine together? LESGOOO but ofc i am not like a professional dancer lmao

Hello umm, so i studied maths here in india and i feel like most of the learning that I have had throughout my school was very formula based, where we will learn a formula and solve questions. But now that I look back, I have realized i dont really understand any of it and would love to start somewhere.

What has been challenging tho, is I don't know if i should watch youtube videos or if i should watch youtube videos then which ones are good for actually learning and not rote learning. If i should read books? but i have always had a hard time with that. I think I am a visual learner but also adhd so i struggle with focus a little. I just wanna have fun. i just wanna learn and solve some questions. i just want to learn again...

id really appreciate some advice from someone who has started learning math after an already existing system.

P.s - im 25 now and the last math problem i did was probably when i was 18 but ofcourse i still know how to integrate or what are sets, or matrix multiplication but i just know it because i have done it, i have no understanding of it tho

eventually i would love to study some computer science concepts with the help of it like data structures and algorithms or machine learning

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This is my first time flying from Bangalore, and i have zero estimate. Can i rely on google maps? Planning to book a cab at 6:30am. Is that too early? Or should it be earlier than that? Does it take time on airport?

Title. Was thinking to go out in noon and work from a cafe or explore a library with a fellow girly (we can exchange insta before you decide on going ofc for verification )

Recently moved to Bangalore and had one of my biggest scare I had ordered Urban company's bathroom cleaning services. I recently moved to my flat and was alone when he came but I have done this before, so I was confident. He did this work. Finished it and went. Now 5 hours after, I had ordered dinner from zomato... Zomato guy gave me the parcel and I closed the door but as I was walking inside, I hear a voice saying 'madam' from outside my window. Since it was night, I couldn't see who it was and naturally thought its the zomato guy, "maybe he mixed up the order or forgot something" so I just opened the door...You all should have seen the horror on my face when I saw the UC guy.

I kinda froze in the moment... He started saying something about CCTVs and losing his scooty which he parked in front of my gate? (but the thing is i never saw him on a scooty or arriving on a scooty) or If he had left his keys here..Broo it didnt click me then but I just naturally replied that you can ask the owner who lives on the ground floor, and yes we have CCTVs here and stuff...maybe that scared him or what or maybe he genuienely lost his scooty...But if he had genuienely lost it, he should have come right after right? what is the point of coming 5 hours later at dark..at 10pm. I swear I am so scared right now...alone here in this apartment..I haven't even setup anything..

Genuine or not, service providers like Urban company should have an option on app for the service person to contact the service receiver if there is a conflict instead of showing up at their door at night especially when they're females who live alone.

have locked up the gate and informed the owner but still I am so scared...As an anxious person, this is a nightmare

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Have you ever heard the phrase “my dreams don’t let me sleep” i feel like i am on this tangent of life where the future excites me like there is something waiting for me on the other side of it all.. and its gigantic like ill have my space, my name in this world. Could i just be delusional? What do you think and who are you? And what space do you occupy in this world? Are you as materialistic as me? Are you as ambitious as me? Please come say hi, don’t be a stranger :))

and ofcourse be a human and not a robot. If you’re someone who’s been wanting that push to start the thing youve been delaying for the longest time, here is your sign. Go chase it, YOU CAN AND YOU MUST DO THE IMPOSSIBLE!

I have my job starting from june 16th and I genuinely cannot find a place for the life of me 😢 I have no friends in bangalore and I don't know anyone there AT ALL so its soo damn hard to navigate this. I am supposed to be finding flats in sec-6,7,5. Looking for independent 1bhk since my younger brother will also stay with me and my family will most prlly keep visiting.

I was thinking to go live in a hostel for a while until i find a place but ill have some valuables with me and im just scared in general. I have been looking at The hosteller bangalore. but like how do you go about this. someone pls help before i lose my damn mind (ill treat you to a meal once all of this is settled)