u/Illustrious-Page4938

Just for a little background my mom let's call her Carol and my sister let's call her Sarah have always been super close, and I have just been on the outskirts. Sarah has a tendancy to be a bit of a baby and Carol loves coming to rescue her from an problem she has no matter how little it is.

Now back to the present. I am a grade above Carol, and we pretty much have taken the same classes. I did really well in math and usually aced all of my work. Sarah on the other hand sucks at math and really struggles. Partly due to it not being her strong suit and partly to her not trying. Carol has always carried her through school since she was young, so she gets away with not putting in much effort. I offer to help Sarah whenever she is struggling and show her how to do the problem.

But this is where I am fed up. Today Carol had the idea to dig up my old work from last year and just copy it down. I told her no, but one day I got back from being gone I caught Carol rummaging through my old work which I discovered they had been doing for weeks. I took my work back and yelled at both of them and told them I wouldn't allow them to cheat off me. They got mad back at me said it wasn't cheating and that was pretty much it...

But now today Sarah's teacher sent out an email to the whole class reminding the class not to cheat. Carol then started thinking that the teacher was addressing Sarah because in the email she mentioned homework grades not lining up with test grades, and since they only had my homework to copy off that would apply to Sarah. Well after listening to Carol trying to defend it for a few minutes, I just lost it and snapped telling them they were both cheaters.

Now Sarah and Carol are mad at me and are trying to pin the rest of the family against me as well. They are also trying to guilt me into allowing her to use my work because that is just "helping family out" and that it isn't cheating. They say I am just being mean and trying to hurt Sarah. So, AITA?

I (22F) am looking for a new job with better pay and benefits, but my current workplace found out and is now giving me an ultimatum. I can either put in my two weeks by the beginning of June, or I have to commit to stay for the foreseeable future. I have put in multiple applications and am still looking, but I haven't heard back from any of them.

But before we go too much further let's talk about why I want to leave this job. First, the managers there treat many of their employees with disrespect and will pull them of their assigned job to do a job that is in a completely different section of the business. The male manager and a few of the other male workers there can also tend to be inappropriate with the younger female workers and make us uncomfortable. Third, the pay is not good and we receive no benefits. And lastly, they are constantly changing our schedules up to the day of, so you can never really feel comfortable making plans.

I have many people in my life pressuring me to stay, but I am not even sure the job can sustain me long term. I really want to move on from this job but if I leave and never hear from the other jobs I will be unemployed. (I do have enough savings that could sustain me for 5-6 months though if I was unemployed for a while.) So what's your advice? Should I stay at the job and suck it up, or should I put in my two weeks and risk being unemployed temporarily?