u/Illustrious_Can7151

I get so tired of my friends and family trying to pressure me into taking my kids to go do things that I know are not going to be good time or just a huge stressful situation.

People that only have one kid have no clue how hard it is to have that 2:1 ratio at that age.

Sometimes I just say no and let them feel however about it. Sometimes I give it a try in case I’m wrong, but have right so far every time.

My favorite is my mom telling them to be quiet 78 times in the hour that we are at a restaurant because she wants to go out to dinner 🙃

I’ve officially been divorced for a week. It was a long drawn out, contentious process. My lawyer who has been in the game 30+ years said it was one of the hardest he has handled.

I thought I would feel this huge relief and I just don’t. My ex husband. Was recently diagnosed with a brain tumor, as of now it is treatable, we have a 2 year old and 4 year old.

He still says he loves me and if I wanted to get back together (which I don’t) he would.

I guess I’m just feeling kind of lost and not really sure how to feel about that. Makes me feel crazy. I should be happy it’s over and I just feel lost.