Deadname, are they really every finally dead
I have been out and transitioning for 3 years now, on GAHT , on a LONG waiting list for my affirmation procedure that I am so ready for and really hoping that I will get before I expire but after I went through my court procedure and had my name and gender both legally changed I have gone and gotten my drivers license, insurance , banking , then I went to do my medical records and some of it was not a problem but OMG and I went to social security and they changed my name but they would not change my gender identity because it was right after this administration signed that ‘Executive Order’ and also I can’t renew my passport so how long and what advice do you have to share in regards to actually making it a truly DEADNAME’ and not a “deadname’ ? Even my phone keeps popping up with that and dysphoria shows its ugly head and I just want to try to crush it, any suggestions?🤷♀️🤦♀️