I [25M] need some advice/help with my girl [25F]
Hi just need a little help but kinda venting to. Ima speed run through it.
\- started talkin in November. We both said that we weren’t looking for anything serious but we started to like each other and I asked her to be my girl officially on Valentine’s Day. (Officially for 4 months, talking do 7)
\- Everything is pretty much healthy for the most part. Minimal/No argument, often communication, we love each other, dates, etc. Kinda one of the best relationships I’ve been in.
\-Also, she’s pregnant but we’re still kinda flustered on trying to figure out everything
\- PROBLEM:
The week before we went to Indiana to visit her family everything was so perfect. Fast forward, we went on the trip everything went pretty well but when we came back she started acting different. We don’t talk as we used to, secc kinda slowed down, she started spending the night at other ppl house and barely going home. And now I’m starting to feel like she’s slowly pulling away. When we’re together everything’s cool but when we leave it’s seems distant
\- she says maybe it’s the meds she’s taking or maybe it’s the baby that’s making her act differently and that’s understandable I just don’t wanna lose what we have and we have such a great thing going already.
\- we had a talk about our requirements in a relationship. I said all I need is love, loyalty, and respect but she acts as if it’s so hard to do it now but just before all this she’s was doing such a great job. She says she needs a break to figure herself out but I really do love her and I thinks it’s gonna do more bad than good (not tryna jinx it)
Any advice or help on this. I want our relationship to grow and not be thrown down the drain. Thank you for the help and reading everything.