How long does it take to get ur ecertificate generated after oath? I had my oath on may 14. The clerk said it should be generated within hours of the email sent after the oath but mine isnt generated?
I moved to canada about 4 years ago. I had a gf who is korean Christian here for about 2 years and we were doing good. She wanted me to be Christian because her parents wont let her marry a person who isn’t Christian and for me i believed there is a god but never really looked into my faith.
Her parents gifted me a bible and I was going to read it but university hit and i had to work hard for getting good grades, managing sleep, social life and her. I wanted to become a Christian because i knew that was the only way i can be with her and marry her. I joined this church and i went there sometimes to get started but stopped going when studies got harder. I knew i had to work on it but i thought i can always do it after. After i am done building my career then i can work on my faith and spirituality.
But her parents made her break up with me 2 days ago because i couldnt become a Christian and they gave up on me. They had been talking to her about it the whole 2 years we were together and made her break up with me and she obeyed her parents because she tried to think objectively and she wont be able to be with me unless her parents allow marriage after. My family isnt korean or Christian so there is a lot of cultural differences but i was willing to overcome it. I tried learning korean as well took few courses. But we had the difficult conversation and I asked her to ask her parents to let me talk with them once but they said if we talk right now nothing has changed so they wont agree for anything.
So i am trying to become a Christian now. Is there any advice for how i can get started. English isnt my first language so i am trying hard to read bible but its a little hard so i read a chapter then watch videos about it on youtube i am done with genesis now and working my way through. I know this is not a way i should get into Christianity or force myself into it. But i dont think i have another option most i can do is read bible with an open mind and try accept everything so i build genuine faith. I have until the end of summer to work on it so any advices would be helpful. I do want to become a true Christian although the reason to become one might stem from me wanting to get back with her but i care a lot about her to just let her go without putting any efforts.
If possible, any advices for convincing her parents i have become one would be helpful as well. I apologize if all of this is very inappropriate for this subreddit, im sorry i genuinely just needed advice