Hi Reddit!
I’m a 30M and iv been single my whole life. I would say I’m charismatic, kind, funny and average or above average in looks.
I’ve been on numerous dates over the years, and even “dated” girls in the last, however nothing would last over 2/3 months. Iv never felt truely connected to someone.
I would say I’m decent at the initial phase of dating, mainly because I’m kind, funny, and actively listen and care about what people say. Although once it needs to get deeper I just don’t know how to do it.
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My question: I think I’m emotionally unavailable, but how would I know and how does someone stop being emotionally available.
Only recently, over the last two years have I opened up to my friends (not my family though) about my feelings. Only recently, if I’m annoyed at my dad will I speak up and actually express myself. These thinks iv never done my whole life.
Now that I was recently rejected by a girl I liked, I’m trying to find out why I keep running into the same issues, and currently think I’m not emotionally available enough.
Dating is hard but I want to improve myself and if I have issues, I want to solve them