u/Imaginary-Price-5889

i’ve been seeing someone for nearly a month now and i’ve been clear with her about my condition and things have been very smooth sailing, but recently she went down on me and penetration with her mouth was completely pain free and enjoyable? i’ve tried hand stuff again post this and it’s still the same as it’s always been but i was wondering whether this is a common experience? she told me she’s going in very far as well. this just confused me as i still can’t get even my smallest finger in and was wondering if anyone else has experienced this.