I (21F) want to get closer to a classmate after we graduate should I reach out or let it go?
There’s this guy in my class I’ve grown to like as a person We’ve talked once properly, shared some common interests, and he seemed friendly He’s clearly comfortable around girls so I don’t think he’d react badly or see it in a weird way, We follow each other on social media but beyond that and a few instances of small talk throughout the year, we never really built anything
I’m not saying I have a massive crush on him I just genuinely like him as a person and I’m reallyy frustrated I never got the chance to get to know him better Part of me wants to send him a message , but what’s holding me back is the fear of rejection I don’t even know if he’d be interested in talking, and even if he is, I’m not sure it’s worth it at this point given how little we’ve actually interacted
And we’re not gonna see each other anymore
It feels weird to reach out out of nowhere after basically one real conversation and some small talk over a whole year
Has anyone been in this situation? Did you reach out or let it go and do you regret it either way?